I went on a first date with this girl last weekend.......?
One week later and i haven't heard from her. We shared a nice kiss at the end of the night, and she told me to call her.
Is it over? I know she's got school and stuff, do you think she wants to go out again?
Since Sat. went well, I called her Tuesday night and one more time on Thursday wishing her a happy and safe St. Paddy's because she told me she had plans for that weekend.
She knows I want to go out again, but I am leaving the ball in her court. Was calling twice in one week pushing it?
2007-03-18 02:06:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no i think that it shows that you care about her and how strongly u feel, see what happens, if nothing does send her a text saying well whats happening but phrase it nicely like, would you like to go out at the weekend, if nothing happens then i am afraid i would take that as a no, but she may just be overly busy, however if she replies but still says no it doesnt mean no, it means i dont have the time so dont take it bad.
all i can say is good luck mate and i hope it all works out for you
2007-03-18 02:11:47 · answer #1 · answered by me!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off... you should never kiss on the first date. sometimes just a short hug is great ... its very respectful and tells the girl you enjoyed her company. now, calling twice in one weekend is a little much. during the date you should suggest going on another but without too much emphasis on actually going on another date .... key word "suggest" then redirect the conversation quickly while still having some sort of aim at another date. anyhow.. calling and saying "be safe blah blah blah" is nice ... but for it being PATTI'S day it probably would've been best just to call today (sunday) and see how everything went blah blah blah. so... the balls in her court so to speak. Leave it there until wednesday if you havent heard from her. you'll know by then if there is another date on the way. and just to let u know... i dont appreciate you writing emails to me regarding the termination of my account because of the humor i displayed so very gently in the last intellectual question you asked. thanks... good luck...
2007-03-18 23:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by Standing in Line 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, there's 2 ways it could go from here:
1. she likes you a whole lot, and is just busy. she can't tell you yet, but she loved getting your messages and is going to call back as soon as possible. she can't wait to go out again.
or
2. she didn't like you as much as you like her, and didn't want to rush it by going out again so soon. maybe when you called her twice, she was annoyed by you leaving her so many messages, but that's doubtful.
so dont worry about it. either she'll call or she won't and either way, you'll be ok.
<3
2007-03-18 09:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by *marisa* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i wouldnt call her no more.she already knows you want to go out with her again.so if she wants to go out again then she'll let you know.if you keep calling her then youre gonna sound desperate and annoying.and thats not good.thats a big turn-off!maybe shes just busy.
2007-03-18 09:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by Itsjustme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time....maybe she is really busy.....maybe she is just trying to play it cool...
2007-03-18 09:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by Spaceyangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well go fir another girl if she wont call back, and dont seem desprate- MAJOR TURN-OFF- for girlz!!
2007-03-18 09:10:19 · answer #6 · answered by moniqu_07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋