Problem with hot tempered gf - help?

Question

My gf got problems with her sister and I tried to make her feel better but somehow it escalated (as she didn't want to talk about it and I still added that I understood my gf feelings and was with her no matter what) and I guess she is angry at me now.

we are in a long distance relationship at the moment so i cant see her in person.. I know she is the hot tempered type of girl, but she is very kind inside.

I knew about that when she went on msn (she doesnt have internet home) and somehow, she started not answering then logged but i know she read the msgs i sent her online.

I know she needs time to cool off but i don't want her to sleep with bad feelings toward me..

Now the question, should i msg her to try to make up or wait until she calls me or gives me hints that she wants to talk?

Please I don't want to hear about pple sayin dump her or other things because I love her and i know she do too. I am new into couple relationships (my first gf) and need some advices...

Note for people that thought it was a online romance: I met her in real life already, and Ive known her for a year before I left my country to go oversea and study. So in total we've known each other for 4 years already.

Answer 1

While you may really like this girl, beware that she is hot tempered and thus, she will get worse as time progresses. If she's so immature that she cannot control her emotions then i would suggest you kick that girl to the curb and move on. You deserve better than this in life.
I was married to a woman like her, I overlooked the hot tempered attitude she had for far too long, I finally woke up and smelled the roses the day she buried a butcher knife in my shoulder because she was mad at one of her family members.

Answer 2

You call her dont sit around and wait call her and see where her head is at . Maybe you need to take a trip and be there in person for this conversation that might help a little surprise think about it. SHe maybe feeling all alone if you are no there with her

Answer 3

you should go get a few beers and some buddies and do something fun..hell go shoot some pool and tell a buncha lies..if she comes back thats good...if not find you someone else...lifes to dam short to have other peoples hissy fits to worrie about.... lmfao though I'm 35 and divorced after 12 years,...you may not really want to follow my advice.. didn't work real well for me..but then again i'm driving a new mustang and dating a 19 y/o girl now..so maybe it did..hmmmm oh well enough about your problems...lets go get a beer..

Answer 4

You are not there, let her go. And i dont mean dump her.

Let her miss you for a second, and if she loves you she will, and she'll come back to you. Leave her alone, because apparentlt, that's how she wants to be. Its like a scab, if you pick, it eventually becomes a wound again. Let her heal, and youll see your beautiful skin in no time. She wants to handle this situation HEr way

Answer 5

aww.you sound like a nice guy...what i think you should do is give her time to cool off.you already tried to send her messages and she's not replying.so just wait for her to call you when she's ready.

Answer 6

My best advice is that you cannot "love" somebody who is only a mental image you have typed with.... find a flesh and blood woman!

Answer 7

If you love someone, Set her free If she comes back, she's yours, If she doesn't, she never was.... THE NEW VERSIONS..... Pessimist: If you love someone, Set her free If she ever comes back, she's yours, If she doesn't, as expected, she never was. Optimist: If you love someone, Set her free Don't worry, she will come back. Suspicious: If you love someone, Set her free If she ever comes back, ask her why. Playful: If you love someone, Set her free If she comes back, and if you love her still, set her free again .

Answer 8

Wait for her hint.