My sexual hunger is just less than my boyfriend's, I can't do anything about it (if I can, please tell me what to do). But he always wants to have sex, and he's really pushy. He has a superb body and he's lovely, but he makes me nervous with being so pushy and he makes me want to have sex even less. He is trying so hard and he makes me feel like I have to do it at least for him, because if I don't, he will get depressed that he's not good enough for me (he's really sensitive). But the more he tries the more he makes me feel uncomfortable. He's also trying too hard to make me have an orgasm, which puts a pressure on me and makes my body say no to him even more. Help, what should I do?? I don't want to make him feel bad or make him feel like he's not good enough, but this way he's making me want to have sex even less!
2007-03-18 01:44:15 · 8 answers · asked by Hellomynameis 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to be strong and tell him flat out that he is making you nervous, I t sounds to me like he is not ready for the RESPONSIBILITY that comes with being in a relationship. You should stop having sex all together and work on the emotional / respect issues of your relationship before you even consider continuing with this guy. Sweet heart the male ego is fragile but don't make this all about him, you have needs as well and it sounds to me like they are not only being ignored but they are also being trampled.
2007-03-18 02:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by frogenstien 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds more like pressure on the job than sex. I have a much higher sex dirve than my wife, but sometimes shes just now ready. I understand that women are more intelecttually sexual than men and that they also stay sore alot longer. Me and my wife have FREQUENT sex and its always great. But its only because the respect is there. Gimmie gimmie is not respect, its lust. If he loves you, he'll respect you, if not, sex will be a deciding factor in your relationship. If its based on how frequent you can perform, take your performance on the road.
2007-03-18 01:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by atlazdrama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
0_o wer're twins lol. yeah it kinda gets you pissed off doesn't it? My bf is just like yours. He's sooo sensitive. And I feel the same way you feel. Listen, just tell him he's good and you like him a lot, but you're not in the mood. My bf just makes a whole fuss when I say it, but a least I get to keep to my point.
2007-03-18 03:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough question.. you must talk with him and be truthful... alot of women do not reach their sexual peak until they are in mid 30-40. Men peak in their 18-20... ask him to allow you to initiate the sex and performance of it and see how it feels to in control of the sexual act when are so to speak the driver.... FOREPLAY IS A MUST FOR US WOMEN>>>>
2007-03-18 01:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all , he should know exactly how you feel about this, he is being so aggresive to help you have an orgasm that he didnt realise how you felt.. so talk to him...
2007-03-18 01:53:10 · answer #5 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then leave. or communicate your feelings. Those are your only two choices
2007-03-18 01:48:58 · answer #6 · answered by Michael b 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well sex is not the meaning of love aren't it.????????????????????????????
just tell him that your satisfied with him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
just understand him, man always have a huge urge for that thing.ssssssssssssss!
2007-03-18 01:51:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax!
2007-03-18 01:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋