i am always nervous when i meet a new girl because i have no idea what to do with her on the first date and i always nervous when i go out with her the first time,what im asking here is what the best thing to do on the first date to get the relationship going to the next level?
2007-03-18 01:37:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first dates should be a "getting to know you" date.. finding common interests and then expanding on that knowledge to strike up conversations later and doing stuff together. It's about building a relationship whether it turns out to be friendship or marriage.
2007-03-18 01:41:52 · answer #1 · answered by tampico 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live close to the sea, a beach is the best romantic destination, otherwise, have a drink at a trendy cafe where the music is not too loud and you can both relax and enjoy!
To take away the pressure, keep a first date very casual, you don't have to perform. Just be flirty/teasing and in a positive state of mind.
Focus on fun topics and avoid conversations around exes, religion, politics or personal problems. These ones tend to either bring conflict or focus you on the past - you rather want to look into the future, right? :-)
Be super confident! Makes you very attractive
Good luck!
2007-03-19 16:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by vitalcoach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to the movies, dinner, and dancing if she like you you may get a good night kiss if not don't worry not all of them kiss on the first date. When you take her home ask her out again if she likes you she will say yes if not then find someone who does. It's not as difficult as some make it out to be, she either says yes or no then you take it from there.
2007-03-18 08:48:51 · answer #3 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with a nice dinner at an inexpensive restaurant, then a movie. Or weather permitting, take her for a walk in the park and then to a nice movie or restaurant.
2007-03-18 08:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go where you can talk quietly that has a pleasant outlook --- a resturant is a good choice --- forget the movies you dont get a real chance to talk and get to know each other --- a movie is for when you have been going out for a long time and you want to see it with someone close
2007-03-18 08:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋