It is so obvious they are trying to cause trouble and I think they know i used to get angry very easily and argue.
MY sisster is saying alot of horrible things about my mum it upsets me as my mum adores her my other sisster is using my feelings to try and make her self look good by telling me certain people have been speaking about me.
Do you think i should say something or just leave them to it ??
2007-03-18 01:34:10 · 11 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Their whole purpose is to get you to "do" something. It's called manipulation. Tell me is it working? Can you be so easily manipulated? Are you just a puppet on a string? Listen, it's the maturity in you that is screaming in your brain to back off this situation. An immature person would jump at this opportunity for conflict. I don't mean to give you unwarranted compliments, but, I think you are a bit more mature than your siblings! Stay that way!
2007-03-18 01:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by delux_version 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you are in a really bad position here. You can try to help, but, I would stay out of it. If they try to lure you into the mess, tell them both to get over themselves. If they want to be mad at each other than so be it; but if it has nothing to do with you, tell them to leave you out of it and work it out between them. Good Luck!
2007-03-18 01:44:01 · answer #2 · answered by stormzsecret 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all if yall are related then thi should not be happening family dont do stuff like that to eat other especially if yall are sisters. This is the game of playing both ends against the middle so just back out and hopefull it will go away
2007-03-18 01:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by toofavorable 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just leave them to it. Saying something is just going to feed their warped sense of self. People talk about others all the time, I'm sure they talk about me. Doesn't change my feelings or what I do.
2007-03-18 02:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mike M. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most families have at least one trouble maker in the bunch. it took me many years to realize the best way is to expose that person every-time and make them see that they aren't going to get away with the games that they love to play. cutting that kind of person from your life will save you tons of hours of misery...shes a loser and needs to get lost!
2007-03-18 01:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it.
People play all sorts of mind games with others, they get some sort of kick or satisfaction out of it. If you bite and retaliate you are playing their game and they will win and you will feel worse.
2007-03-18 01:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by bri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should sit them both down and have a discussion about it and get it all sorted out before it gets worse, but try not to loose your temper. i know it is easy for me to say but you wont acheive anything if you start arguing it may just make it worse.
2007-03-18 01:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by lou897 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would make your first sister face your mum & say what she has to say to her! and i would politley confront your other sister with the people she's said that are talking about you!
you have two choices....1) loosing two sisters. 2)having less friends.
either way you will get it off your chest!!!
2007-03-18 01:45:27 · answer #8 · answered by mavircal 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give them the rope all of it let them hang themselves with it *(or so to speak) and when the rope gets to tight let it go so they dont go AWOL and leave the family as we all need family !
2007-03-18 01:43:23 · answer #9 · answered by gands4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think they are trying to get a reaction from you,dont let it bother you,some things are best left unsaid,
2007-03-18 01:39:12 · answer #10 · answered by LYNDA M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋