To forgive or not to forgive?
I have a online chatmate,we like each other,we had our instant connection,
Then one day I didn’t know whats on her mind,she tricked me,her friend pretended that she was somebody,but she admitted it,she tested me how honest I am to her,
She got upset when I talked to her friend online,of course I am so mad too because its not fair to test somebody like that,I have decided to stay away from her for awhile,she keeps on calling me saying sorry, sending emails apologizing,but I don’t talk to her yet.
Should I forgive her give another chance?Or forget about her?
2007-03-18 01:31:26 · 9 answers · asked by jewel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forgive her but move on, on-line relationship are not good
2007-03-18 01:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just forgive her and give her a chance..nobody was perfect in this world..maybe she just feel not enough safe to fall in love with a online chatmate..but if u didnt do anything wrong..u wont get into her trick..maybe that is a very good chance to let u two get to know with each other..since she had already apologise to u so many times why not just forgive her?? everyone deserve chances..if u really like her..u will understand her..hate a person one minute will make u lose 60 second of happiness..
2007-03-18 08:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by Chreyl S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is a dilemma, I would say to forgive.. if you didnt talk to her in a long time, i think thats a might harsh punishment... as they say forgive and forget
I hope you resolve this problem, Good Luck
2007-03-18 08:36:45 · answer #3 · answered by kmplaya93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is it not fair??? she does not know you and lets face it most guys will cheat if given the opportunity ---- so let it go --- if she is willing to forgive you then she for you --- for you what is more important --- your belief that this is not fair or your relationship with this lady????
2007-03-18 08:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive her, you should meet up with her before getting into any serious deal of relationship
2007-03-18 08:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by just n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a mistake come on forgive her.. if she repeated that dump her.. y do guys get afraid of loyalty tests????? god!!
2007-03-18 08:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her.
2007-03-18 08:34:32 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her
move on
2007-03-18 08:34:04 · answer #8 · answered by Cher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should give her another shot
2007-03-18 08:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by james d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋