i am in love with my husband for 5 years but i am having an affair with another man who shall i be with
2007-03-18 01:23:54 · 9 answers · asked by naz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
i really can not see how you love and respect your husband if you are cheating on him........when you got married you said your vows to your husband...and if he found out about this how do you think he would feel.........when i found out my husband was cheating on me it was over...i could not trust him and there was nothing sacred in our marriage left because he was messing around with other woman...a husband and wife should be able to trust each other...and love each other...why did you get married if you wanted to have affairs with other men...think about this and decide what you need to do for yourself.........you have to live with your decision........i know they say it is just a fling or some stupid thing like that....but it involves much more than that and you were not even thinking who might get hurt by you having this affair...and the trust issue would be if she did it once will she do it again....................i hope the best for you .........
2007-03-18 01:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask yourself what you are getting from the affair that you're not getting from your husband. Don't answer "sex" because you can get that from both men. It's probably something to do with excitement and anticipation, or putting some zing back into your life. You can revive that in your marriage, if you really tried. However, as you are wondering whether there is any merit in remaining married then perhaps your love for your husband is not as strong as you think.
2007-03-18 08:28:19 · answer #2 · answered by gorgeousfluffpot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, as a woman whose husband cheated, do not think you deserve either of them. There is never an excuse for cheating. If you do not love your husband then leave him before trying to replace him. You obviously do not love him or you would have been content with your lot & not looked elsewhere.
Sorry to be harsh but having been on the receiving end of this kind of treatment I feel very strongly about this subject.
2007-03-18 08:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by monkeyface 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you say you are in love with your husband and still cheat on him?Who should you be with, you ask? If you want to play the field, get a divorce! Apparently you don't know what you want! You should have stayed single and then you would not be in this situation!
2007-03-18 08:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love or are in love with your husband, cheating would never have been an option. Period.
2007-03-18 08:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by spillin paint 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have both.. Unless you choose to divorce your husband, stay with him.
2007-03-18 08:30:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband if he loves you
2007-03-18 08:28:01 · answer #7 · answered by Shahd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flip a coin...No, pick the husband....
2007-03-18 08:34:45 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start dating women!
2007-03-18 08:30:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋