There's a guy at my school who keeps hitting me, and pinching and poking, and pulling and the like. He's leaving big bruises and swellings all over me, and i wanna make him stop. I've told him that its not funny and that it hurts, but he doesn't think there's anything wrong with it, and keeps laughing and still continues. I'm looking to do soemthing that will hurt him, but not cause any permanent damage. I've kicked him somewhere on his side, and he let go, and was winded so ended up crouched over, but its really not an effective technique considering how its not particularly easy to execute. If anyone knows any simple but painful defence techniques that will stop him doing it, please tell me. I'd appreciate it.
2007-03-18 01:19:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Sports ➔ Martial Arts
He also grabs my wrists and twists them round, and won't let go, whichi is when i kicked him. He's a hell of a lot stronger than me too, obviously as i'm a girl, so it needs to be effective. :) just to let you know
2007-03-18 01:21:15 · update #1
Ok, I should have mentiones this earlier. I already have training in martial arts. I have a brown belt in karate, but my main issue is that i would rather not break anything or cause any damage. I just want to show him that if he keeps on doing it, i'm going to retaliate properly. I don't want any techniques that could end up switching the blame from him to me. By the way, the head knows about it, as does one of my parents (i mean, its hard to hide), but nobody seems bothered enough to take any action. So i want to stop him myself. Does anyone think wrist locks would be effective, as i know and can execute a few of them.
2007-03-19 02:06:03 · update #2
Stand up for yourself. This guy is a bully and he won't be the last one you meet in life. Bullies are generally cowards. He is picking on you because you show restraint. He thinks you are afraid so he keeps it up.
Honestly, a good solid punch in the nose is what the kid needs. Even if he beats you up after, he won't mess with you again because he knows you will fight back, and bullies don't like that. If you have to defend yourself maybe make sure it takes place inside the school so things don't get out of hand. I also wouldn't wait until he hits you. If you were my son I would say hit him before he hits you. Distract him and sucker punch him right in the nose as hard as you can. If the school is not protecting you then sometimes there is no other choice.
2007-03-25 22:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by Yahoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have told everyone already and they have done nothing about it, beat the guy down and take your punishment from the school. Make sure you have some sort of proof you went for help from the school, told your parents and the like. But you just need to take a moment when he will not listen to you and keeps bullying and make it his last. This will stop his bullying, give you your self-respect back and ensure to yourself you will NOT tolerate being a victim. Just make sure you have told anyone who needs to know that you are not going to tolerate it anymore and that if noone does anything that you will take physical action.
In terms of techniques, just hit him where it hurts. Groin, face, knee, instep of foot, ribs. Use the kicks and punches you have been taught and don't care about his attacking you back. Bullies are not good fighters.
2007-03-23 19:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by Matthew E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go directly to the school authorities and allow them to administer the punishment. For they have these people called law enforcement that has numerous people like him locked up and they seem to get these bully's attention real quick. Also tell your parents for they can take legal matters and talk to a judge and get a thing called a restraining order. This is the way nowadays they take care of these kind of problems. Now in the old days we would just take him out and say don't mess with me any more. If not I will well the tar out of you, for you have turned your cheek and then turned the other there is no more than kick both of his. Then pray for him.
2007-03-18 08:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by jusjoe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first and foremost, u cannot be taught martial arts over the internet, sorry to be blunt, but as an instructor, i know that explaining online, can cause u more harm than good, if you do the technique wrong. so, tell u're parents, counselors, teachers, etc... then take some classes in taequando or jiu jitsu, or karate, any type of martial arts.
2007-03-18 23:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by Riki S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GROIN STRIKE! GROIN STRIKE! GROIN STRIKE!.Hate to say this but it sounds like it is past time to "not" hurt him. Im not one to start a fight but it sounds like you need to finish one. If you say you have been training for a few years or so you may have sparred at some point. Have you accidentially kicked a sparring partner in the groin? Does this have a good effect? In other words GROIN STRIKE! GROIN STRIKE! GROIN STRIKE!. This will stop any advance he might want to try. Also I dont know how old you are but this may be his childish way of saying he likes you!? If you really dont care about this guy a chop to the throat may also be an effective way of getting him off of you. Good luck.
2007-03-24 22:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by Reds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy bullying a girl sometimes means that he likes you...... he just doesn't know how to project this emotions, if he's getting really rough to the point that you are getting bruises, then maybe you should re-think wether or not you want to hurt him.
If the adults already know it.... and the problem still persists.... do you have an older brother? or maybe a friend who's as big or bigger than this bully? they'll be more than happy to take care of this problem.
2007-03-19 14:31:19 · answer #6 · answered by Frank the tank 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem. Im in school to and i am a bodan in taekwondo. Perhapes a double bar arm lock. or just continue kicking. Tell ur guidance councelar about it. Even try getting a small type of restraining order. My friend got one of those in 7th grade. If anyone hurt her from a certain group of people, they would be arrested.
2007-03-24 23:51:25 · answer #7 · answered by Maggie =D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he touches you scream "RAPE!" He'll let go as fast as heck. Then kick him where it counts and RUN! :)
Nobody has the right to do that to you! That makes me so @&$%&*$%$%&^&$@@^**%%% angry! ESPEACIALLY since your a girl and he's a guy! GRRRR! And if you're a brown belt just use what you know! You don't have to hurt him but you can use pressure points and controling techniques. Also ask your instructor about it, that will do you good.
2007-03-22 21:18:04 · answer #8 · answered by Squidney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
involve teachers for help and learn a martial art like akido or jujitsu which use your opponents momentum to execute defensive moves try not to fight this guy but if he gets too serious try to get a few fingers behind and under his collarbone that will cause pain but no injuries if he doesn't stop from this pull up and away from him the bone should just snap that will stop him, try to avoid this guy
2007-03-19 03:32:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee some people.... Why the hell do people try to claim martial arts isn't for fight and it's not honorable then they gladly give out advice on how to hurt people?
Well for the asker, tell your parents he's sexual harassing you. I promise you the school will take action fast! They doesn't play around with that stuff at all!
2007-03-18 11:28:44 · answer #10 · answered by Honor Among the Demons 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋