I met this guy once before and he asked me out. I said yes to meeting hin next week for coffee. But Im very nervous maybe its because its been a long time since I had gone out for a date. But mostly Im scared of the way he looks at me, he looked straight into my eyes and was staring at my face while we were talking. I must admit he is a very attractive man .. Im worried that when I meet him that my heart would melt before his.. Should I even bother to meet this man.. Im 31 years old he is 36 years old
2007-03-18 01:13:49 · 9 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i think not going out on a date in a while has a lot to do with the nervousness...and this is normal i believe ....and it is good that he looks you in the eyes because i think that means he is looking at the real you.......he is interested in you........and i do think you should just try and calm down and i do think you should go out with this man............and i really hope the best for you........you know i know in this day in age it is hard to meet real nice dates and all.......but if you never try you will be sitting home all alone and be to nervous and maybe ruin your chance for a happy marriage or relationship...........
2007-03-18 01:25:42 · answer #1 · answered by sanangel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way he looked at you is a good trait.I hate people that won't make eye contact while talking. Many people use the eyes to percieve the truthfulness of the conversation. Go for it.
2007-03-18 08:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by sensible_man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. All new meetings are nerve wracking experiences, at any age. You will be fine. Be yourself and see where it takes you.
2007-03-18 08:19:14 · answer #3 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What have you got to lose? Enjoy the ride, life IS a rollercoaster!
2007-03-18 08:21:03 · answer #4 · answered by canguroargentino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax.. everything is going to be fine...It wouldn't be bad if you was a bit more confident. So what if he look straight at you, confidently smile him back...
2007-03-18 08:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by Pearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok...just control yourself....and look into his face also while talking for him to understand your awkardness the way he stares
2007-03-18 08:17:30 · answer #6 · answered by geez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course, you are a big girl hon
2007-03-18 08:28:22 · answer #7 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it ...hope you will enjoy it.may be there is something special about him that you not know.
2007-03-18 08:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by esmeralda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm..dunno
2007-03-18 08:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by G?ld?n ang?l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋