Need To Know If She likes me?

Question

ok well there is this girl at work that i like and she has been like flirting with me for months i am 19 and shes 27 with 3 kids and she is single. well she found out a couple weeks ago that i liked her and the same day she found out she told me that her friend liked me not her. but she continues to hit on me like calling me sexy or sexy legs when i wear shorts to work or commenting on my biceps and i think she is dropping signs bc she was talking to her friend saying she needs to stop hanging with guys her age cuz their a bad influence and that she is attracted to guys who are like 19 or 20. Need Help serious answers only

another thing is that i am very shy i have only had one relationship that lasted for a few months but didnt end well so i dont know how to ask her to dinner

first of all i aint liking myself more than she is cuz i am strong but my biceps arent big it just doesnt show and she says this stuff every time at work which is every night at work cuz we both work midnights together

well lets see i am very mature for my age i ahev had this job since i was 18 and i am almost 20 and if we did become serious and stuff i can handle the 3 kids cuz both of us each make more than 80 k a year and i have always wanted a bunch of kids and her friend doesnt like me she tells me her friend says i should ask her to dinner and i am very shy so is she trying to get me to make the first move

well she has never been married and all 3 of her kids are to the same guy and i dont look that great to begin with

Answer 1

The best way is to actually ask her out on a dinner and go out to see a movie. I don't think she will refuse if you go up to her and ask if you were yourself, and don't listen to anyone else since those are their ideas and they are only trying to fill your head with bad ideas.

Answer 2

You say you don't look that good. Don't think you have to settle for just anybody based on your opinion of your looks. You have to love yourself if you expect anyone to love you. Since you are 19, you have so much time to look and find the perfect girl for you. It would be great to find a single person with no kids to start a life together with. I'm not against single mothers, but at your age, just take it slow. As you get older, your interests will change as will the type of girl who interests you. I don't know if you are still living with your parents but don't jump into a relationship just to leave home. My current husband ran away from home at 17, married a woman in her 30s with 2 kids and it was a disaster. He never had the chance to grow up before he had to deal with a lot of things.
Does she love you? Unless you've actually dated and spent quality time together how can you expect her to know? Give it time, stay cool. If it is the real thing, the test of time is the best answer. In the meantime, show off your cute legs to lots of gals. Good luck!

Answer 3

You would be very foolish to hook up with a woman her age and with 3 children. You have not begun to live yet and you wont start if you saddle yourself with a ready made family. It's hard raising 3 kids alone and she would probably like to get married and share the load. However, that can cloud her judgment too. Like each other at work all you want, just keep it lite. Your way to young to get serious with anyone.

Answer 4

She is a serious problem, she not only playing with you guys, but she doesnt care what truoble she could bring you guys.
Im 30 and I dont feel old at all , but I see a 19 year old guy as a Kid or teen cause thats what it is for me, Im not trying to offend you,
But think your self going out with a girl who has 3 kids ? and then get serious with her? are you really ready to take care 3 kids?.
If she calls you words like sexy, or other things, then take it as a compliment and enjoy it, but why she doesnt look for men on her age???
crazy lady doesn't she has enough trouble with 3 kids?
why she wants one more? :)

Answer 5

hmm...well honestly i think she's just a despo....maybe she's just playin with u...i mean come on!!!...she's much older than u n she knows very well tht u won't be able to handle 3 kids...

Maybe if she's really serious then u cud buck up the courage n ask her.....but my advice.....stay away from her....i know several women like her.....they look at ur body.....and then they want it...want it bad!!!.....they do wht they wanna do n den leave u......y do u thinkher ex-husband left her....seems suspecious me!!!!......but this is ur life hun......do wht u think is right and don't get too emotional n feel sad for her !!!!!

Best of luck.......

Answer 6

Beware of anyone who's playing mindgames with you, nothing but trouble,she's sending too many mixed signals........she knows you like her ,then tells you her friend likes you but still wants to drop all this crap on you Be careful Doesn"t sound trustworthy to her friend or you......Move on

Answer 7

sounds like you are the one that is liking your self more than her. give up the fantasy and go back to reading flex magazine. if she is a normal woman she would have already been on you like a bum on a ham sandwich. i would bet that you have women every day hitting on you (in your mind) take up a hobby like becoming a narcissist. oh wait sounds like you already have.

Answer 8

I think you have to take a dinner with you she seems likes you