A girl gives a guy many things if you don't like her will you still take the gifts and how would you tell her you don't want the gifts and you don't like her?
2007-03-18 00:46:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
almost impossible for her to have hurt feelings in some way
but...the truth and dont accept gifts...
just say "I'm sorry I cannot accept your gift(s),I hope you understand" and that should tell her most of what she needs to know I'd think..if not, then just plain english should do it
Something like...
"i'm sorry, you a nice person and all, or..you're a good friend , but I'm just not attracted to you in that way"
Good luck
2007-03-18 00:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way I think is to say that you DO appreciate her, but you want to stay only friends and that you can't accept these kind gifts. Then try to be kind but firm, don't accept even a single gift again. She might feel hurt but it's a lot less hurtful than her wondering and not knowing whether you want her as much as she wants you.
2007-03-18 07:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by charmedchiclet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can say that you are nice girl, I would hate to take advantage of you by accepting your gift and sorry I am not looking at this time for a girlfriend.
2007-03-18 07:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by Emily L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like a girl just say so and don't take any gifts from her it just give a wrong impression. Be polite and sensitive to her feelings.
2007-03-18 07:50:47 · answer #4 · answered by sexy-star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. Honesty sometimes hurt but lies hurt much worse.
Do not accept gifts as it will send mixed messages.
Sit down, tell them, be honest and know that it will be ok in long run.
It is hard I know but do not lead anyone on. It will help them also in the long run.
2007-03-18 07:50:00 · answer #5 · answered by Teresa P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would take all the gifts she had given me and tell her the truth. I've had lots of girlfriends and that's what happened to everyone of them.
2007-03-18 07:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by C. Shih 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely her feelings will be hurt no matter what.
Just be straight...Tell her that you like her as a friend, but you have no romantic feelings for her and that it wouldn't be right to accept the gifts.
2007-03-18 07:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that you apprechiate the gifts and that you are already taken . that way you said it in a nice way to her . you do not have to let her know that you don't like her . Just let her of easy !
2007-03-18 07:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her, Your very flattered but your not looking for a relationship right now.
2007-03-18 07:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way to do that you just have to tel here now. Longer you wait it is going to heart more.
2007-03-18 07:49:28 · answer #10 · answered by Vesna P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋