my ex wants my money now she knows am working and olays games with me wants me to fight with ppl and stuff,a dont want to give her money a will buy my daughter things a still have feelings for my ex 14yrs and a kid at 9 what should a do a think she just wants my money she dont work and drinks during the week wen am away in diff area working a did go over at weekends but its not fair a think its like she wants both lifs plz help!
2007-03-18 00:35:16 · 4 answers · asked by james480468 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
buy food and clothes for her,but keep all receipts,open a bank and put money in every week,you then have proof you're providing.the csa say if shes on benefits they have to get involved,god help you they are b######s
2007-03-18 00:41:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does not sound like a very good person, or mother for that matter. You need to just stay away from her, i know you spent alot of your lives together and of coarse you will still have feelings for her. Love doesn't just disappear but you can move on from it.
For the sake of your daughter pay child support and give your daughter what she needs but please do not give into the demands of your ex. If she persists, or even tries to stop you from seeing your daughter then go to a lawyer because its the only way to sort this out.
Most of all though do the best for your daughter because she is the one stuck in the middle here.
God luck babe xxx
2007-03-18 08:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Ex is bringing up your children.....you are not...i think you should give her money, its not for her, its for the kids. Whatever she does during the week is of no concern to you, as long as the kids are being looked after. Your responsibility is towards them and not her, so cough up the money and dont become another one of these dads who shys away from their responsibilties concerning child support. Its only the kids who suffer at the end of the day, and at least you will have peace of mind and say you have contributed a bit to towards their upbringing!
2007-03-18 08:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by lisa l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get involved with the csa...you're life will be wrecked!my partner's life was ruined when the csa got involved after he divorced his wife!
just think of your daughter which is not to blame in all this!!!come to an agreement between you & her mother & make sure that the child doesn't suffer!!! you can still be civilised with the ex wife no matter what happened between you! your daughter has the right for both parents to be nice to one another!!!! have a good talk with your ex wife....see what she thinks....if she really loves the child...she wuld be civil about it!!!!
good luck
2007-03-18 08:17:39 · answer #4 · answered by mavircal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋