Boyfriend is a doormat- how to help him gain confidence?

Question

He's really good to me, but he never stands up for himself. It's such a turnoff. Help?

Answer 1

grab him n kiss him

Answer 2

rather....you have responded the question your self. a million. you're waiting to publish this question in spite of your low self esteem. 2. you're comfortable at the same time with your seems somedays...Few people look sturdy, consistently. 3. Being headstrong won't help you in many circumstances. 4. you're conscious that persons use you and because you're uninterested in it...you're subconsiously engaged on no longer be used. 5. while you're 'attempting' to love people, they probably are not your sort. merely love people for whoever they're and that they're going to return your gesture. you notice....you're making a start to love your self with the help of reflecting on your 'so observed as' weaknesses and desire to greater effective your self.

Answer 3

Whenever you feel that he's being used by someone, HELP him but keep hinting that he doesn't HAVE to do this.

Also, do stuff to please him and him alone so that it spoils him thoroughly. This way, he'll get used to the good life and wonder why he should be treated as a doormat if someone treats him that way.

Answer 4

There are 3 types of people in this world, passive, aggressive and assertives ones. Your b/f is who he is, a passive person. Do not try to change him, accept him as he is.

Answer 5

I am also a door mat let me know when you figure out his problem, I'm still working on mine.

Answer 6

You could nag him more. Once he does whatever you tell him he'll be sure to have more confidence.

Answer 7

Tell him...