We broke up 3 weeks ago...because he said that although i was great and beautiful etc etc, he got bored...and he couldnt help it...we broke up very friendly, and we're still in contact and he knows i'm still loving him...sometimes he doesnt even bother to say hello to me when we meet at cafés,but he stares at me..his best friends are very good friends of mine, we still go out together sometimes..Should i get profit from it? I really need him back,he was the best boyfriend i had ever had and when we broke up i got depressed..What should i do?How can i understand if there's even the slightest possibilithy of bringing him back? thank you..!
2007-03-17 23:23:16 · 6 answers · asked by Rose 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
actually i forgot to mention that he had nothing bad to say about our bed issues..
2007-03-17 23:36:45 · update #1
He would sometimes pass without hello and he knows how you feel - he is playing with your emotions and you're letting him. Let him go.
2007-03-18 00:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by Sofia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he took your love for granted. It happened to me, too and to many other people. To get him back, you should start avoiding him, find a new hobby, an activity that make you happy and enjoy it, so that he gets left out...Men always want what they cannot have...Or find a new guy and make him jealous...But as he said he got bored beside you, I doubt that he has deep feelings for you. If he is not jealous, just forget him...He is not worth your time...You will find somebody better in no time...He was just trying to stop being bored, he did not really love you. It is tough, but if you set your mind to it, you can survive and grow stronger...become wiser...
2007-03-17 23:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you wanna go back out with a guy who thinks your boring anyway ?that's stupid to wanna be with some one who broke up with you because they got bored being with you.that's a stupid reason to broke up with some one.He will come back on his own if he really wants to be with you. and If.Its meant to be you guys will be together.do not get your hopes up because It;s possible he might wanna be with you at first then later change his mind about wanting to be with you. and end up being with some other girl instead of you.that hurts but some times that's the way things turn out. I would not consider getting back with him.because he did not ask you back out yet. because If he wanted you back he would of ask you out already.theirs not thing you can do If he does not want you back you .you just have to move on with your life.and stop wanting someone you can not have because he might not feel the same way about you any more.then again he might just be playing with you feelings and heart.or just want to have sex with you and that's all.
2007-03-18 00:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by Carebear22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We would really need to know more about him to answer your question, but possibly he wants to do things you don't do. Exactly what, I don't know. Ask his friends what he says about you.
2007-03-17 23:31:58 · answer #4 · answered by supertop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you ask his best friend bout your ex' feeling about you??? i think, it's worth a try to you to ask bout it.. then you'll know what you should do.. you might make a decision after you ask your ex best friend... good luck
2007-03-18 00:07:01 · answer #5 · answered by rimanadya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U CAN BRING HIM BACK DONT WORRY BE HAPPY TALK TO HIM CMON GOO QUICK OK BEST OF LUCK
2007-03-17 23:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋