i want to know weather a person is fit for marriage who says that he loves me and wants to marry me but when i ask to marry he wil never answer the problem is i said in my house that i wil marry him i cant understand what to do please help me i am feeling to die asi cannot answer in my house and i also loves him a lot shal i go for arranged marriage or shal i die its looking as if he is doing time pass with me
2007-03-17 23:18:19 · 11 answers · asked by jaiswalhema 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The only way a man can really prove to a woman that he loves her is by making a commitment to her.If he fails to do that for whatsoever reasons he obviously does not love her that much. It is no use loving or dying for a man who does not love you a enough to make a commitment to you. Break up with him and get some one that deserves you more. He could be messing around with other women behind your back.
2007-03-17 23:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is clear that for some reason he isn't prepared to shoulder the responsibility of a married life, at least for the time being. You should put a straight forward question before him - whether he is sincerely desirous of marrying you. If yes, then the prospective date on which he plans to do so. Demand honest straight forward replies to the same. If he vacillates, you better look for alternatives. And put the thought of dying for a man who could well be insincere, out of your mind.
2007-03-18 04:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think he is fit for marriage because he escapes his responsibilities. we should know that marriage is a lifetime commitment and you should be sure of who you want to spend the rest of your life with. this person should be responsible especially that he's a man. a man should always be responsible for all his acts. and saying that he will marry you but does not answer when asked, is kinda a scary thing. i think, he would just leave you anytime he wanted.
just a friendly advice, think not only twice, but think about it over and over again. marriage is something to be enjoyed but both of you should be responsible enough.
2007-03-17 23:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by bonjette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Death is not solution for everything. If that was the case then i would have not been answering this question. Life is a war every you have to give your best shot at it. Now for your prob ask what has happened sometimes men get scared of commitment you did not mention age here. You have to boost his confidence for marriage. Man is the weakest creature emotionally a woman makes him strong.
2007-03-17 23:29:24 · answer #4 · answered by Bacti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person who always shy away from marriageis either passing his time or just making use of you. It is much better either you look for another guy or go in for a guy selected by your family. Secondly you can also talk to him frankly asking his intentions, maybe he is having some genuine problem.
2007-03-17 23:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you may be asking if you should stay or leave a guy who says he will marry, but never will?
If so, let go, move on, time is too short.
2007-03-17 23:26:42 · answer #6 · answered by jamz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he escapes you, that means he did not love you as well, because if he loves you he will take his responsibility...Maybe he is looking to another one that is capable for him to marry.
2007-03-17 23:24:14 · answer #7 · answered by shekinah_78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank God atleast you came to know abt him before marriage. You are really lucky. Please move and accept ur parents decision. They are the good and caring well wishers of u then anyone else in the world.
2007-03-21 22:03:01 · answer #8 · answered by Raki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were u i'd have forgotten him and married someone else.
And would have learnt to use punctuation.
2007-03-21 04:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by Drools over home made food 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him time is too short.
2007-03-17 23:43:11 · answer #10 · answered by jasmine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋