im 32 weeks pregnant and when i hold my sister in laws baby (10 months) he now seems to be gettin jealous there another baby closer, he cries his eyes out when i talk to my bump or rub it, and my baby starts kickin the hell out of me when i hold her cousin!!! i'm worried its going to affect how much time i can spend with my sis's baby as he's a lovely lil thing, but the jealousy? any ideas how 2 help once mine born? she's due on his birthday too!!
2007-03-17 23:06:48 · 8 answers · asked by evilbunnyhahaha 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
when i hold him and my baby's sleeping and not moving, he's fine though! no tears or tantrums. he does the same if me or his mum hold another baby. our friend has just had her baby (so cute, only a week old) and he'll throw a paddy! same with his Nana, just worried that when she's born it'll carry on and she'll be sleep in my arms and he'll wake her or vice versa. he does seem to be a very jealous little boy, but i think he's just used to being the only baby in the family, and now its changing he doesn't like it!!
2007-03-17 23:30:10 · update #1
i think you will be fine maybe he knows you near you due date ??? there isnt such thing as jelousy at this age he is 10 month old and probly freaked out but the size of ur belly have u ever thought that maybe when you hold the 10month old that the baby ur pregnant with is kicking and thats maybe freaking the 10 month old out ????
2007-03-17 23:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by loubylou 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
10 month old babies have no concept of jealousy. However, they can sense something different. Not only can he see your round belly but he can feel your little one kick. It is a weird concept for him. Once the baby is here he probably isn't going to realize that your belly is no longer huge and that you now are carrying other stuff around. He will be back in your lap like he did when he was 6 months old. As for your little one in you, the 10 month old will want to touch in amazement at this little one. He will probably try to hold and kiss and play with him/her. I wouldn't be concerned, your 10 month old will adjust quickly and will accept your new little bundle of joy!
Good luck!
2007-03-18 06:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by JennTarbox 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he is the first baby(cousin) for a long time and has been getting all the attention,he will be jealous,if another baby comes along and all attention is on baby hes going to feel left out, then you say your having one too how do you think he's feeling
just make sure he still gets lots of attention and include him in the activies surrounding baby to help make him feel special
2007-03-18 12:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥™Tia™♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just dont worry about it just be happy that you are going to have a lovely little baby i i am haaving a baby and it is due on may the 10th and i am really i would not change it for any thing in the world
2007-03-18 11:06:46 · answer #4 · answered by Suzanna G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HE WILL JUST NEED TO LEARN THIS BABY IS HERE TO STAY THIS IS THE PERFCT TIME TO LEARN ABOUT SHARING. THERE IS 6 MONTHS BETWEEN MY DAUGHTER AND MY NIECE AND MY DAUGHTER NOW THINKS SHE IS MY NIECES MOTHER
2007-03-18 08:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
your sister in laws baby is just freeked out by your big belly, and your baby can hear him cry and kicks.
i think!
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2007-03-19 09:08:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-18 15:09:27 · answer #8 · answered by get your nose out of the books 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋