Why did you divorce ?
How did you cope during divorce process ?
What kind of judgement did you recieve ?
How did you cope in the aftermath ?
Did you date or remarry again ?
Was if costly financially ?
Was if costly emotionally ?
Were there children custody involved ?
And anything else you think is relevant.....
2007-03-17 22:58:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Cheating husband. Rebound.
Drink.
A simple divorce.
Realized I didn't love him anyway.
Yes, currently involved with someone I dated before him-6yrs now. I'm hesitant to marry again.
I was stuck with quite a few bills and legal fees.
My pride was hurt. I tend to not be very trusting now.
No children.
Make sure that you marry someone for the right reasons, love compatibility and NEVER change who you are to please someone else. And if there is someone that you haven't gotten over that hasn't gotten over you either, don't be an idiot and marry someone else.
2007-03-17 23:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He was only interested in using me financially and for the papers. Ended up blackmailing me he'd take my baby away if i didn't give him what he wanted.
As you can expect, I had to fight all the way to get a divorce.
It was disastrous, both financially and emotionally, i had to borrow from my parents and move back with them because i was left with a small baby. Not to mention he made up I had been having an affair during the marriage (and i was pregnant, besides) not to look too bad with the judge. He pretended to be broke not to give child support and he's never made any of the tiny payments he was told to make.
I was so scarred I spent 4 years without dating. I started dating again once i moved to another country and found a new job and indeed a new life.
It was the marriage from hell, honest!
My present husband is a good guy.
2007-03-18 06:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by Sara M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why? We were married 18 years and grew apart. We fought all the time.
Cope? I was a mess. I lost 20 pounds. I was skinny to start with.
Judgment? Mutual
Aftermath? We fought even more!
Date? I started dating before the divorce was final, so did he.I remarried 2 years later. He has remarried and divorced 2 times so far!
Cost? He spent a ton of money on a big time lawyer. I hired my Dad's fishing buddy who is a lawyer. $450.00
Emotionally? I am now a better person. Finally he is a better father.
Kids? I got full custody. That cost him so much money. 3 kids child support.
When I was going through it I was not a sane person. I hated so much. Not just him, I hated myself, his family and everyone that was nice to him. I did things and said things and thought horrible thoughts! I am not proud of those things at all! Now, years later I am a strong, self reliant, woman!
2007-03-18 06:11:31 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. T 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I divorced after 8 weeks of marriage because we rushed our marriage. We had a VERY unstable relationship, but his mother thought it was best because I was pregnant for us to get married. I was 19 and he was 24 and he wasn't ready to be married and all that goes with it. I wasn't ready to deal with a dead beat, (if only you could meet my ex and my current husband I swear they are twins!). The way that I dealt with the divorce was throwing myself into my daughter (who was not born at the time of break up) and my work. I received everything that I wanted in my judgement, and he was stuck with the bills from that time due to me being on bedrest and him being the "breadwinner". I did date again (and remarried) but I think I should have waited longer, because I married the rebound guy (whatever was I thinking)! My divorce took only about 14 months (and that was because the ex refused and fought tooth and nail). I filed the paperwork and everything myself, and it only cost about $100.
However this time, I am not sure how I am going to manage. My husband was my everything. I just wished I would have known that I wasn't his everything!
2007-03-18 06:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by Someonesmommy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I had a very amicable divorce. We agreed on everything. There was no petty squabbling over every stick of furniture and money. The Judge said it was the nicest divorce he had ever presided over. We hugged in the courtroom and went out for lunch with champagne to celebrate. He remarried a year later. I am getting married in June. There is no need for hate and animosity and revenge. When it's over, cut the losses and move on...
2007-03-18 06:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
-I got divorce coz of his parent's repeated interferes & his weak personality against that.
-Many ppl tried to contact us & gather us again but it didn' work.
-That im not the caring wife & a needy person..another affair...etc..
-we didn't.
-Well i dated couple of times just for fun 1st i thought it was serious but later on i realized that i don' love these guys & im not healed yet to remarry.
-No he lost my jewels, diamonds, & 5,000$$ for me.
-Very painful actually i still dream of him & think & cry some nights although its been a year.
-No kids thanks god.
If u were passing thru this experience just calm down & get into a play affair & u'll heal soon!! good luck!!
2007-03-18 06:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋