Cheer me up please. Its the last question I can ask and I need to have a perspective as to how to think about this.
2007-03-17 22:19:35 · 28 answers · asked by ChocL8♥R 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I like you...you have never done anything wrong to me...maybe your friend is JEALOUS of something or someone...did you ask your friend? Find out what is up!
You are a fine person that needs to pull her chin up her back straight....you cannot make people be/do exactly what you would like....you must either like them the way they are or go and move on...
I added you to my contacts list! ;)
SMILE....it ain't all that bad!
2007-03-17 22:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by missellie 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
There is nothing that hurts worse than the betrayal of a friend. It's almost like a death in the family. And I'm so sorry for your loss.
People nowadays are short on loyalty, dearheart. It's not like it used to be when friends stuck together for life. That is in short supply now, I guess.
You know, if a person betrays you, do you really think that person was ever REALLY your friend? I know you thought so at one time, but nevertheless it didn't pan out that way, right?
And if a person you thought was your friend has done you wrong, do you still need them as a friend? Is that someone you would want to trust your most personal thoughts with? I don't think so.
You know, in life when doors shut, others open. Do you know that there could be a person out there who is going through the same hurt as you are right now? Maybe she ( or he ) wants a friend so badly. They want to be loyal and have someone they can share things with........for a lifetime. Maybe God is closing a door for you now, but perhaps He is opening another.
I know you're hurting right now.....but I honestly think that you are going to meet someone real special soon. And you will once again build up a level of trust. And when you have found that special friend, it's going to be for a lifetime, and you will forget all about this pain you're in right now.
Yes, you've experienced a loss. And loss is always something we'll have in our lives. But there is so much we will gain also. And I know you will get yours soon.
So smile. And look forward to meeting someone new, someone who is going to be very special to you. Don't be sad, be excited.
Best wishes to you, dearheart.
2007-03-18 05:33:16 · answer #2 · answered by C J 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It could have been worse!
Better to face it now than a few more years down the road. There are so many good people you can meet up with, people who know how to honor, respect, and treasure friendship.
Your "friend" is not worth the while to cry over with. Be magnaminous. Send your "friend" a thank you note for being a friend. Give him/her a chance to feel guilt over what was done to you. Start selecting friends carefully, and just consider that "friend" erstwhile acquaintance... then you won't feel that bad.
2007-03-18 05:45:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
OK, why do you care what others say about you? My momma taught me that sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me. True fifty years ago, true today. If your friend is talking about you then they are no friend look for someone better. Don't be dependent on others for how you feel about yourself. Be strong and independent. You are who you are and you should be proud of that. Hold your head high and ignore these people who are so insecure that they have to belittle someone else to prop up their own lack of self worth. You don't need them or this. Years from now I want you to look back at this and say this is the day I turned my life around and truly became who I am. Look in the mirror and say to yourself I am worthy!
Good luck.
TB
2007-03-18 05:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by barkel76 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ohhh im sorry that really sucks the only thing you really can do is be the bigger better person i know its not easy but to handle something like this while keeping your dignity and showing some class will get u much farther in the end dont sink to that level i know its hard to see in the middle of it but sincerly its what u need to do to not prolong it or aggravate it hope you feel better after all the advice these good people here gave you and are able to see the big picture good luck
2007-03-18 05:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by cuddlefcuk 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That person was never your friend to begin with. People can be very deceiving Be careful who you trust. You can't go around trusting everyone that comes along. Keep your eyes wide open, always. If there are signs that someone is not quite trust-worthy or disloyal(either to you or someone else) don't be blind to it. Be Strong and write someone off if necessary. It may be a hard thing to do. But in the end, it'll be worth it. Cause no one wants a broken heart.
Good Luck and good night.
2007-03-18 05:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
You will make many friends in life and some will come and go. The ones that don't talk badly about you are the ones worth keeping.
The bad times don't last forever.
Hope you feel better soon.
2007-03-18 05:24:03 · answer #7 · answered by JackCabbage 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
the only person responsible for your happiness is you Friends will always fail you in some fashion most people are self absorbed and its all about them find some friends that have some class just ask yourself would you are do you do the same if not your the better person its tough to loose a close friend but that's life some people just are mean spirited good luck you will be OK
2007-03-18 05:27:15 · answer #8 · answered by Are we using our brains today 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
SPOILERS to follow. DO NOT READ FURTHER if you don't like Spoilers!!
You will find, later in life - that friends (even your BEST, best, best friend) will let you down. Why? I could use up ALL of Yahoo's space telling you the answer.
You have two choices now (and later in life):
You can DEAL with your friends' inperfections, because you have the SAME imperfections.
Or you can live your life in solitude.
THAT should be your question.
2007-03-18 05:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by Debi in LA 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If they are talking bad about you then they never were a true friend. I know its painful Honey but its true. You just need to forget them and move on. You can always make new friends. Hugs and best of luck to you
2007-03-18 05:24:18 · answer #10 · answered by mysweetluvie 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
we've all been thru that, and if sum1 hasn't then they will. you dont need them if they are gonna talk bad about you. it took me forever to realize that but once i did it stuck and now i have the best friends a person could ask for. its time for you to open your eyes to the world of other ppl who wont talk badly about you or try to hurt you.
2007-03-18 05:32:57 · answer #11 · answered by ♥immortal_vampire♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋