how do you feel when ur sister in law involves ur privacy over the limitted? she get in ur room when the door closed? knock on it at 12 am when it locked? leave her saliva on ur 6 mons baby's cheeks? yell at ur husband infront of u? remind ur husband to help his parents? her bf takes ur baby away from ur hands without say hi or ask u? just walks into ur room and takes her away to their room. She's 20 yr old and i'm waiting for her to understand for my situation, i live wit my husband's family. His parents and his lil sister. He wants to live wit them forever to help them out. I gave up my dream of having my family bcus i love my daughter and he loves her too. He told me he can't live without his daughter but i really need my privacy. My husband does not belong to me already his family is still trying to control him and even me. :(
thanx
2007-03-17 21:21:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your husband need to grow up. You should tell him you will not live with his family any longer. Then move out. If he loves you and your daughter and wants to be a family, he will come with you. If not, you are far better off without him.
Any man who puts other people before his wife does not love his wife and is too immature to be married. Didn't you think about this before you married him? Get out now.
2007-03-17 21:29:33 · answer #1 · answered by joker_32605 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First things first You. You need 2 get level headed. Think how you would have if u were in high school and someone was after your man. ( Sorry to be so Juvenile but that is where they have brought it.) That is your husband and your child and if you want 2 move than it is possible. First of all limit the time the sister in-law gets with the baby. Be busy get a new sitter that u trust. Start setting a bed time a nap time that the baby can not be disturb and brake out from his family. Get involved with a church or some of your friends that won't mind watching the kid for anytime that u think they can handle it. Get sometime with just him alone. Let him remember how cool u r. Why he is with you. Then after that date, the next day, tell him you are saving money for a new apartment , for just him,you and the baby.
This is where you have 2 hold your own. Know matter what lame *** excuse he gives you. Let him know u r ready 2 have your own. (Every women deserve the right 2 make her own family) When all else fails let him know that your sex life will be so much better if you guys had you own place. Tell him that when the baby is sleep you could even suck his Johnson in the kitchen if you had your own place.
2007-03-18 05:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by fabulosity 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like the whole family are losers. Move on without him.
2007-03-21 20:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi lily n,
such things happen in joint family. tell ur husband that u require privacy. also tell him that it is high time that ur sis in law should get married. for that wait for some time. enjoy the life!
2007-03-18 04:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by amarnath 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let her go out and get married. Why not help her in this.
2007-03-18 05:10:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
-----you became # one when you and him got married-----let him know how you feel---you want your own home----with him or without him-----he can help the family without liveing with them----------
2007-03-19 08:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by mike h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your hubby its time to get your own place move on with or with out him
2007-03-18 04:26:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ,your husband and child move out or it'll never be better
2007-03-21 20:34:18 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋