Virgos unlucky in love?

Question

I am a Virgo...I have several friends who are Virgos. I have noticed that out of all the signs we seem to be unlucky in love. Is there a reason for this?

Answer 1

Hey fellow Virgo...I think there may be a few reasons for this. I personally have had my share of lu-lu's (LOL!) until finally finding my hubby who has been a wonderful partner. First, I think we hold onto the past TOO long, which also means we stay in the bad relationships because we have a hard time saying "no" and letting people go that need to go. We can also have a difficult time with change, so we get comfortable with someone for too long and then it's like, "Well, I can't end this relationship NOW because I've put all this into it and...blah..blah..blah". Second, I know from personal experience that we get along with such a wide variety of people that we can attract the weaker and downtrodden, too, so even though we may be intelligent, responsible, hard-working individuals, we sometimes can end up dating the immature, irresponsible person who can't hold down a job or get it together. And third, we can get very rapped up in the emotional part of a relationship, so rapped up that we fail to see what is so painfully obvious to everyone else. So while we're with this person that provides us with those good feelings that come with any relationship, the rest of our friends and family are going, "Are you crazy?! This person is a bum; you could do sooo much better!". I think that we're a little insecure sometimes, too, so we can actually trick ourselves into thinking that being with someone, no matter how bad they are, is better than being alone.

The good news is, there are some great partners out there for us; the caring, loving, responsible types who will give back to us what we typically give so freely of ourselves in a relationship. I finally sat down and really thought about the qualities that I wanted in a partner, and then told my family and friends that under no circumstances would I even consider dating anyone without those characteristics. It can be very simple things; for me, he had to have a long-standing job, be responsible, be mature, have his own vehicle and had to have some long-term goals. As soon as I got clear on what I actually wanted and needed it was amazing how quickly things fell into place. Within a few months I was introduced to my hubby through family and friends, and even though he wasn't normally my "type" I was willing to give the relationship a chance because he fit all of my qualifications. Today we have two kids and have been married for almost 5 years. He is also a Virgo and had had many bad experiences in the love department. Now this is not to say that you will immediately meet someone, or that you should search out another Virgo, but I think it is really helpful to us (especially since we love to make lists anyway!) to really list those things that are important to us and then to stand by them and say, "I deserve these things, and I will not take second best even if it means that I have to remain single." And really anyone can do this. It was amazing too to look back on all those relationships and think, "Was I really In Love with that person, or did I just care about them?" Hope this was helpful and good luck to you; just have faith and you WILL be lucky in love someday!

Answer 2

I am 22 and an Aquarius. I never even had a real boyfriend. lol I think Aquarius' are more unlucky than Virgos. Virgos seem to be very sexually open minded and charged from what I've known and learnt.

Answer 3

I too am a Virgo/female and I truly think it is because we are picky. My Mother is also a Virgo and picked at my "cancer" father I mean she picked and nagged and after two heart attacks and a stroke He has gotten Peace. I just think we want poeple to know what we want withoput ever telling them.We have a take charge personality that intimidates people into thinking they could not live up to "our" pre-ordained ethics values and those damn pedestels we set things on are hard to climb for some.

Answer 4

I'm having a crush on a Virgo, but I don't know if he likes me back. :P Don't worry, don't base love on astrology alone. You'll find love someday.

Answer 5

that just a superstition my b-day is 9-6-78 and im cool with my man after 7 years

Answer 6

i really hope not. i'm a virgo too....