Is it normal to want to invite another woman into the bed with my husband? I am BI and I really want to continue having sex with new and interesting women even though I'm married.
I was promiscuous before I married and I really loved doing that. I know that the bible says that sex before marriage is bad but I did it anyway. So why not break another rule and continue having sex with not just my husband? I think he would also enjoy it.
2007-03-17 20:16:03 · 20 answers · asked by Mai L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because it is considered ADULTERY!
Like I wrote in the statement to your last question why did you get married?
2007-03-17 20:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Married couples are doing it all the time!
You cant help wanting more, just make sure your husband knows you how you feel.
In a marriage "communication" is more important than any religious values!
Talk to your husband and make sure he understands your needs and that the other women are for you, too.
If he is agreeable, and I cant see why a guy wouldn't want having two women in the bed, then go for it.
Good Luck!
2007-03-17 20:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you agree to a heterosexual marriage if you knew you were bi and enjoyed having sex with different people? If you want to have sex with other people then you should end your marriage first, otherwise you are breaking your vows and showing disrespect for the institution of marriage and for your husband.
2007-03-17 20:36:45 · answer #3 · answered by Dream 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you get married if you enjoyed being promiscuous? That bit doesn't make much sense to me. You seem very determined to shack up with another woman whether anyone likes it or not, so why did you bother posting this question? It's your husband you should be discussing this with. Regards Penny
2007-03-17 20:24:50 · answer #4 · answered by Vanessa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm curious, if you are bi then why not open your marriage up to both men and women? I mean it's only sex right? Not like you will leave him for anyone you sleep with. And since your husband is straight can he have women for himself too (not including you)? Or does it only go by your rules?
2007-03-18 01:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by RD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
l guess the normal way of life for you may not be the same as the normal for someone else. l for one would not accept another woman or man in my bed but that is just me. Whatever makes you and your husband happy is what you should do. No one here should tell you what to do or judge you. Good luck to you..
2007-03-17 20:30:37 · answer #6 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this decision is strictly between you and your husband, honestly a man thinking with the head between his legs will says yes lets do it without even thinking. A man thinking with his head on is shoulders will consider this: that his girl or wife will be getting pleasure from another person male or female. once is experimental, twice is liking it too much. men has this thing in our minds that we have to be the dominat one in bed and that we want our woman to submit to us regardless of what is said, but when you add a third party to the bed, you take that away, thats something to consider when you do something like that.
2007-03-17 20:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by The LuvDoctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, talk about having no respect for your marriage. If your husband is smart, he'll turn it down. Why keep breaking the rules? How religious are you? Yeah, sure, go cheat and keep sinning, and ruining your marriage while you're at it. You're married, no more being a whore.
2007-03-17 20:24:32 · answer #8 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it to me is not right, but if u are like me "desparate" for contact from your man than i guess anything goes....my man refuses to have sex with me and when he does he only does it real fast as a way to get off and not seek pleasure in me and he openly devours other women infront of me and i get hurt and he gets mad and says i am in the wrong to be hurt and upset and that is his way~ anyway...i am hurt and i think u should not if hubby feels uncomfy w/the situation...sorry just my opinion/
2007-03-17 20:42:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to do it, and you want to then I don't see anything wrong with it. But, sometimes situations like that can hurt a relationship. He may get jealous of you with her, and you may start to feel jealous of him with her. If it is something you really want to do, then have a conversation with your husband and go from there.
2007-03-17 20:23:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋