What If the man I marry decides he needs to sow wild oats? If he has a much lower body count than me, should I let him sow a few wild oats here and there? It seems only fair given the lovers I've been through being single (50+)
2007-03-17 19:54:50 · 7 answers · asked by Sad Woman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
your history is your history. Marriage is about a commitment to each other not a competition.
2007-03-17 23:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by Blind Squirrel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you really want a guy who would think it okay to screw other women when he is married to you. You seriously have to get over this number crap so you have had some lovers
your telling me out of all those lovers none of them were BF or Husband material either you have very high expectations or you just ain't ready for commitment. Find the guy or pick from your past experiences then maybe you will know what you want in life because right know your asking about the future nobody knows the future.
Everyone just lives life and sees what comes along.
Just stop this what if it's pathetic
God Bless and Enjoy the search for Mr.Right
One tip true love finds you when you not are looking for love it's like the whole Cupid thing!
2007-03-17 20:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok sad if this guy has decided he still wants more experience then do it with him. There are many a married couples who get off on watching others and getting together with others.
Now if you can't handle that then u need to understand he is always going to be looking to as u say "Sow his oats" and in todays society there will always be someone willing to be planted. So your best bet is to join. ( if you are comfortable) Why not try something new together.
2007-03-17 20:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by David C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have some virgin already in mind I would suggest finding somebody who has sown as many oats as you at least. Sure let him play. What guy wouldn't want a wife that let him have sex with other women?
2007-03-17 20:02:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what if he does? why worry about such a thing that hasnt even happened? if you marry a guy you might think that he loves you and is happy to have met you. peace
2007-03-17 20:07:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking about sexual partners and start thinking about WHAT KIND OF GUY YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT. does he check out other women? cheat on his women? or is he trustworthy and tell the truth? does he still love you after you tell him about your sexual past?
2007-03-17 20:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by some_one1234 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so long as you are comfortable with it and have the equal opportunity.
2007-03-17 20:58:33 · answer #7 · answered by Sean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋