How come there is no one to trust? Why is every single person irrational? Why do they all act stupid and do stupid things? Where do you go, and what do you do, when there is no one to understand, no one to trust? I should just give up now. No one can understand. Sometimes I imagine I'm walking down a dark road, and I wait and wait for the one that can understand, to really trust, but that person never comes. Everyone else goes on happily.. happily using people, happily demoralizing people, happily torturing people, happily stealing from other people, happily taking advantage of other people, happily wasting their life DOING NOTHING!
2007-03-17 19:54:30 · 9 answers · asked by kiss_daniella 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I know what you mean .Sometimes some things are pointless and people are idiots they have no common sense. I don't trust anyone either everybody ends up betraying you.
2007-03-17 20:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by damarony896 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have yet to find the person that is always there, whom you can confide your secrets. Not everyone is irrational, but sometimes it seems that way when we feel down. Don't give up. I understand you, the number of times i felt like i couldn't do anything, that it was easier to go. But let me tell you this, if you stop and observe a tree or some flowers, if you see the day as an opportunity to help someone else, it gives you a reason. Ask someone for a hug, and you will recieve one. Please, my dear friend, don't give up. I care about you. Look at the sky, the clouds, do you really never want to see them again? Involve yourself in extracurricular activities to meet more people, maybe you will find the one. Peace and Love to you, friend.
2007-03-18 03:03:41 · answer #2 · answered by Peace_on_earth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone, i cannot stand most people either.
That is life!
people are petty, greedy,deceitfull,liars,etc...
You have to realize though, that you will have to work with, and be around people that you do not like, 9 times out of 10.
You just be the best person that you can be. Stick to you core beliefs, do not let anyone cross you boundries. Be happy being yourself. If you are happy and have a healthy attitude, you will attract the same kind of people to you.
There will always be someone that tries to take advantage of you, do not allow it. Forgive that person, and go on with your life. And i do not mean forgive then ,have them over for dinner. I mean do not allow their bad ways, to affect you. You can forgive someone and not ever have to see them again.
Also, you can never find anyone to trust, if you do not allow your self to trust. You may get hurt along the way, so you pick yourself up, brush away hurt and go on. Trust in yourself! Get yourself, where you want to be in life.
Remember, You cannot control anyone but you can control yourself!
Try to look for the good in people you meet. We always point out the negative, or the ugly. Look at people and try to see what is nice about them, and what is pretty on them.
No one is perfect, you have to give people and yourself a chance.
2007-03-18 03:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you see all the activities that you've listed, its all part of life. there will always good people and bad people. that's how the society created. no one is perfect. for you, i think you are under stress. be patient. takes some time off, and walk to the park or some place peacefully. walk mindfully, meaning that try to understand your problems or what's bothering you. start from there think straight. for others to act the way they did, with mindfulness you find the root causes. remember to give yourself some entertainment. don't stress too much go to the movies. go out and eat your favorite food or resturants. you definitely can't change the world. but you can acknowledge what is beautiful. for example in the early morning the bird sings. enjoy that beautiful songs. or smile of a baby boy/girl. there a lot beautiful things on this earth. just that your stress hinder your view of this beautiful world. remember to give yourself so free time, to enjoy life. life is short
2007-03-18 03:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by Chuck T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how your feeling but you can't send your whole life with untruest for anyone because you will grow up alone and may even end up depress because of all the Bardeen you have been carrying. I suggest to you for you to find someone you can talk to and eventually learn to trust that person. I wish you luck and no matter how most seem dump or ignorant people seem there always that one that can help. SO be strong and never give up.
2007-03-18 03:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by randrnorman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you havent found your true friend yet. i am 36 years old and have confided in and have been burned by everyone ive trusted including my own mother.i met a couple of girls this last year that i work with and have told them several things, and nothing has come back to haunt me so far. im hoping my new friends will last a lifetime but time will tell. be careful about trusting anyone but yourself until you know for sure that someone is a true friend
2007-03-18 03:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by cswenson2@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately All I can say is welcome to the real world.
There are good people in this world, but all of us are egocentric. We are the only ones who will care for ourselves. I know I can't even trust my family 100%, but, I do trust them more than strangers.
It is a give and take. You will generally get what you give.
Are people happy while they hurt others? No. they are just as miserable as me and you!
Are you happy as you make others miserable? I don't think so.
2007-03-18 03:07:50 · answer #7 · answered by shemida1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well look at your respones, that shows your are not alone in your thinking. You have to give people a break we're human and not perfect. Keep it together and don't give up hope they will surprise you when you least expect it.
2007-03-18 03:12:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know why you cant stand people because our whole entire world has gone to crap. It's suddenly okay to be uneducated and vulgar, It's okay to steal from your fellow man. We live where everything is built on ambivalence It's okay not to make up your mind It's okay to just wander, I don't want to wander i want to know my place in the grand scheme of things. I'm sorry to slightly rant on your post its just things make me mad lol.
2007-03-18 03:03:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋