i have two kids boy and girl my son is the oldest. i took them to the movie and dropped them off to a movie they wanted to see,this little girl was calling for my daughter, which is twelve, my son is fourteen, to hurry and get there before the movie start,so i rushed to get her there to be with her friend. come to find out the little girl wasn't there for my daughter she was there to meet with my son and my daughter was the cover up. after the movie i walk in and find the girl and my son against the wall french kissing. and it didn't scare him that i was standing there. he hit her on the butt smurked and walk away like nothing had happened. WHAT AM I TO DO. HE'S 14YOU GUYS!!!!!!! HELP ME!!!!
2007-03-17 19:48:48 · 6 answers · asked by sassy t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you need to punish him and talk to him about his actions - the sex talk is due! i would not allow him to go out for a while because of the lies. your daughter needs to be punished for covering up for him so they know they can't do that to you! is there a dad around? you could have him do the sex talk if need be. he definitely should not be allowed to go to the movies ever again, or be aloud out for that matter for a while.
2007-03-17 19:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by absolut_nixter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stop this ASAP or you might become a grandparent before you are wanting to be.
So, your daughter knew about this as well? I would ground your 2 children (for deceiving you), and also forbid them from seeing this girl. She sounds like bad news as well. She's going to find herself pregnant before she is 18, and she keeps going the way she is with your son, then he will end up being the father.
2007-03-17 20:01:06 · answer #2 · answered by coconutnoodle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 14 an i would say he thinks he is old enough to do that and to tell u the truth he is not so different from the rest of us... we all do **** like that. tell him what you think about it and see if you can come to some sort of agreement... like not going all the way untill he is of the legal age ....... not in public, or tell me about ur gf and what u r doing just make sure u dont go overboard on it!!!! like bamming him from ever seeing any girls ( 1 week is more than 4eva!) or following him around.. just let him know you what to be a part of his life but not drasticly ( we NEED PRIVACY!!!!) or he will HATE U SOOO MUCH!! be careful and i wish u the best of luck!!
2007-03-17 20:11:53 · answer #3 · answered by gothic girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to have the sex talk with him and second tell him how you disapprove of him dating or touching and so on of other girls and explain to him what can happened if he does go that way and make sure to tell him the bad and how much better it is when he in true love not lust and if that doesn't work do like I have planned and just lock him in a cage until he 20 or so and then you won't have to worry about him becoming a dad at a younger age LOL.
2007-03-17 19:59:27 · answer #4 · answered by randrnorman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of "little guys" begun with theyr first kiss at 14. U must talk with him about the responsabilityes that are in a relationship. He will understand...
I think he's a smart one.
GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-03-17 19:58:13 · answer #5 · answered by Kitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should of humilated him in public, and spank his A$$. Ground him, no phone, TV, games, because he is not seeing you as a authority figure.
2007-03-17 19:55:58 · answer #6 · answered by another journey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋