I have NEVER had an orgasm during intercourse since I started having sex about a year ago. Im 18. I can orgasm with oral but thats all. Whats wrong? Does anyone else have this problem? I only have sex with one guy. Is it him?
2007-03-17 19:40:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Try to change things up a bit and dirrect your partner to the things you like. Try having your partner get you off through oral, then move to intercourse. Try different positions and types of stimulation. If you have ever faked an orgasm, you need to tell him or else he won't know that he isn't getting the job done. Never, ever fake orgasm. It isn't fair to you or your partner.
2007-03-18 02:29:33 · answer #1 · answered by mandylmit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of women can't orgasm through intercourse. In and Out thrusting simply isn't enough stimulation. Which makes sense when you consider the part of your genitals that is the most sensitive isn't likely being stimulated if that's all your partner is doing. Your clitoris and/or g-spot need to be stimulated for you to reach orgasm most often.
It's actually pretty difficult to peak just from straight intercourse. Try different positions if your determined to peak that way otherwise ask him to touch you during or do it yourself. Or ask him to perform oral before and/or after. Anything you can do to get sensation to the most sensitive part of your genitals will vastly improve the outcome
2007-03-18 01:13:10 · answer #2 · answered by Rayvin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, you are not alone. I'm 44 and have never had orgasm through intercourse. A woman needs stimulation through her clitoris, so yeah, just intercourse usually doesn't do it for the majority of women. I've only achieved orgasm through oral or direct stimulation. It can be frustrating, but maybe you and your partner can bring toys into play, or fantasy and role-playing. That might help you, plus it's fun!
2007-03-20 10:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by Missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have that problem, I guess some women just can't orgasm during intercourse. Believe me you are not the only one!!
2007-03-17 23:11:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your in a huge group of girls . that is the way it is . what you may want to do is get in positions that you or he can play with you down there well you have intercourse. there is no promise that will work but its worth a go .
be happy that you do orgasm when he goes down on you at least you get off .
2007-03-20 08:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women just can't climax during sex. This is perfectly normal. You might want to experiment with different positions, and doing different things. Then maybe you could orgasm during sex.
2007-03-18 02:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by Meagan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did no longer say no remember in case you ought to orgasm any opposite direction (oral, masturbation), yet i will assume you are able to. some women have worry achieving orgasm with the aid of vaginal stimulation. I propose you do ALOT of foreplay and stumble on a place which will assist you stimulate your clitoris for the time of intercourse. i like to be on suitable and grind my clit into his pubic bone by rocking to and fro on it and it extremely works each and every time. of direction I quite have consistently been waiting to orgasm notably surely, in basic terms fortunate i assume, so notably plenty something he does to me could make me cumm. besides, i think of in case you stumble on the thank you to stimulate your clit on the comparable time you're having intercourse, you will in all probability be waiting to orgasm for the time of intercourse. stable good fortune, have relaxing and USE protection!
2016-10-02 07:45:40 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when did the guy lose his virginity? it might me he never watched porn, never learned how to please, never saw a pussy till he found u lol.. maybe thats it.. teach him what u like nd dont likee, that will help alot i guess... but what do i know.. im a guy too lol.. a very knoledgeable guy.. =]
2007-03-17 21:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by Wondering 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do more forepaly before intercojurce, tell him to rub your pussy a lot with his dick, then tell him to do it harder as he can.
2007-03-17 22:00:01 · answer #9 · answered by jackson s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think it is him...could be, but some women never .
2007-03-17 20:53:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋