My friend thinks she is super attractive and that all my boyfriends are attracted to her, is she crazy?

Answer 1

How many boyfriends do you have? If they are attracted to her then why are they 'your' boyfriends? It seems that if they like her over you they'd be with her? Sounds irrational, but you know that.

So she's irrational, now that's the real question. Why is she irrationally thinking that telling you your boyfriends are attracted to her is a good idea? Self esteem...it's all there.

We as women can attract men, sure, if we are confident and attractive, indeed, even our friend's boyfriends will notice. But since they love their girlfriends and are invested in them they just leave it at a nice glance and a thought that wow, my woman sure has great friends....good-looking, healthy, appropriate...that is what they should be thinking. It's a nice reflection on how you are, that you should have those types of friends. Her telling you that is a dysfunctional way a dealing with inadequacy, and furthermore, she isn't concerned with how you feel. Doesn't sound like a good friend, does it?

Now, we can't change her. So I would like to pose that we focus back on you, afterall, you are powerless to how people treat you if you take yourself out of the equation of fault. You should hold yourself accountable and if you blame anyone, put the focus on yourself as to exactly WHY you hang around with someone like that. So, why do you put up with it?

Answer 2

I used to be the same way! It's really all about how you come across. Are you confident? I realized one of the things that made me hotter than I was because I became cuttingly witty. (: I'm good with words, just try and pick up on body language. To tell you, many guys like a girl whose sweet too, so keep that up! I look a lot like you from the description (just lighter hair), but I changed when I realized guys get scared and may feel you're unapproachable. Try smiling more, may be, and always look like you're enjoying what you're doing. That's always attractive! don't care what he thinks, just focus on him and be genuinely interested. Since I realized that in hmm... 7th grade I've been called "really really pretty" a number of times and hot quite a few times.

Answer 3

She seems very full of herself, maybe not crazy but a bit conceited. She may be a bit crazy as well because normal friends wouldnt think their friend's boyfriend is attracted to them and then tell you.

Answer 4

well confidence has grown to arrogance, i know what you mean, caz i have one like that. she is not crazy but had attention disorder, i read in a book that sometimes attractive girls can have more issue with themselves than the ugly ones, just think she is sick, you cant help a sick person until she treats herself thats the case with your friend it comes from sth deep within him, no matter how many times you tell them they are not that perfect, they will continue and think that you are jealous. and i guess she is little jealous of you too. caz she says your boyfriends like her, she wishes that they liked her.

Answer 5

what do the boyfriends think of her do they flirt with her watch her as she is not a real friend

Answer 6

She isn't crazy if it's true-is she hot and do they perve on her?If it isn't true she is probably just jealous of you.

Answer 7

how many boyfriends do you have?
if no harm is done, then leave her alone. if she is attempting to hook up with your boyfriend, then you need to talk to her.

Answer 8

She is living in a fantasy land...Just laugh at her when she says that....

Answer 9

Really?