I wanna help with it so bad but there aint **** for me to do and im getting yelleed at for it im buying allthe sturff for it what else can i do?
2007-03-17 19:19:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Why don't you have a boys get together on that day - I don't believe that there is a written law that says that women are the only ones that can have a baby shower. You are after all the father and will have a lot to do with the raising of your child so why should she have all the fun. Its probably just her hormones that making her moody - the moods of a pregnant lady change so often you just don't know what to do. Lots of luck with your baby and congratulations.
2007-03-17 20:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by My H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I commend you just for wanting to help. Is this your baby? If so, that baby is lucky to have a dad that is so concerned and interested in him/her even before s/he's born. Anyway, a baby shower is mostly a woman thing (usually thrown by the grandparents). I'm afraid there's not much else you can do except maybe help decorate (before the shower then leave) or buy something for the mother.
2007-03-18 02:28:09 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really sweet of you to want to help soo badly. Im only two months but when I do have mine I want my husband and the other men and my family to have fun as well so I want to have a big family bbq! My husband, and dad can cook out and have the whole family sit around and eat foood and talk and participate in baby games. It can be a lot of fun to have your whole family there and i thin you should ask your wife if she would be open to inviting her male family members and your male family members and letting you enjoy the festivites! After all, its your baby too!!!!!
2007-03-18 19:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by marinewife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We only need men to make babies and carry heavy stuff so......arrive early to help cleanup/set up tables and chairs. Leave. Come back at the end to help clean up/take down tables chairs and carry the gifts to the car. Oh yeah....make sure you buy the biggest gift on the baby registry.
2007-03-18 02:26:49 · answer #4 · answered by PharmDiva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could always throw a male version of a baby shower.... a diaper party
you purchase food and a keg...guests bring a package of diapers per person and can eat/drink all they want...till the supply is gone. you can state that you would prefer them to get like stage 1 diapers so that you have a good supply of them...they grow out of newborn ones really quick
my husband had one for both of our kids...great way to save $$ on diapers and for dad to have his own party to celebrate baby :)
2007-03-18 02:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by witchway915 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask to be made a list if u are getting yelled at. they cant say nuthin if they dont tell u nuthin.
offer not just to pay but actually go pick up the cake, balloons, favors etc (this should be on the list they SHOULD make u if u ask!)
and make sure u have clean up covered!!!
2007-03-18 03:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by Not here 2 make friends 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clean the house. Move couch that need moving.
Baby shower I think are something advoid of man.
2007-03-18 02:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by jobees 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best guy friend made sure there were lots of flowers at my shower.And my husband made sure the food was taken care of and arrived on time.Help clean up as well.That is what they did for me.
2007-03-18 03:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by doshidoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can help out by giving money, so she can buy whatever she wants for the shower. how about being on call to serve drinks and snacks?
2007-03-18 02:22:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at our baby shower we had both men and women there.....you get more.......so dad could enjoy all the goods. we ended up with couples and some very few singles but it was great you could suggest that may be she will let you do that .........
2007-03-18 02:25:55 · answer #10 · answered by its just a joke 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋