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2007-03-17 19:04:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
if there is pain- something is not wright
because its all about pleasure
2007-03-17 19:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by Natalie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretty much depends on the guy..but the first time is pretty much painful or all women....If you have a long session of foreplay and maybe let him bring you to orgasm orally before ou have intercourse or provide some sort of clitoral stimulation you canbet it will eliminate or greatly reduce the hurting factor..more often than not lubrication is the key to pleasure so have your guy spend adequate time in the foreplay mode and if your needs are such, I highly recommend KY Warming Lubricant...it is safe foruse with latex condoms ..you are using condoms right? HOPE SO!
2007-03-18 02:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by NEW_GIRL_NOW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually boredom haha
na jokes
pleasure...no pain unless we are a virgin, or if they havent had sex in a long time, or if the males penis is really large, or if there isnt enough lubricant, or if there is an std present.
those should be the only reason it hurts..
oh yeah and of course some kinky people inflict pain on each other during intercourse as well.. like hair pulling, scratching. spanking, and etc
2007-03-18 02:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by LostMyMind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouchy!! Until the skin rips down there , it hurts but pleasure after your first 1 , 2 , 3 time lol like they say at first guys get all the pleasure and gurlz get all the pain but thats only the first few times then ya.....
2007-03-18 02:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by Stelle S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy has no idea what he is doing pain is possible. If he is a sorry lover who does nothing to stimulate the girl she could feel frustrated and angry. If he is a early shooter she could feel sticky and unsatisfied. If he does not ever change his routine she could feel bored If she is only doing it to get him to shut up and leave her alone she could feel like it was taking forever
Now if her lover is kind and loving and conciderate and knows her feel enough to know what turns her on and is a master of foreplay and wants her to achieve an orgasm then she will feel loved and cherished and really good.
2007-03-18 02:20:22 · answer #5 · answered by littledevilinyourcup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pain during my first few times and after I hadn't had sex in awhile. Now, I enjoy it a lot more. If the guy hits your cervix, then yeup, it HURTS!
2007-03-18 02:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Vida 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pleasure, pure pleasure. If it were painful, I wouldn't do it, I would make him stop or ask him to be more gentle.
2007-03-18 02:15:03 · answer #7 · answered by DJA30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first time.....pain..yes. at least for me. it was like this bad pinching feeling the whole time. and the second and third time hurt too.
2007-03-18 02:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by Taylor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋