What is wrong with wanting to have sex all the time? I love it and can't get enough of it. I am married but I am planning to get wild with my husband and other women.
Why can't I believe in god and enjoy sex like it was meant to be: With a variety of people not just one person.
2007-03-17 18:42:10 · 10 answers · asked by Mai L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hey its ur choice but dont try to mix God in it............the most dangerous christains are those who try to justify their wrongs if you want to do jus admit its wrong but you dont care about that you jus want what u want. But dont say hey God should accept this in that case a pedophile can use the same arguement.
2007-03-17 18:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by exceptionallyexceptional 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really believe that when someone is a true Christian, that they would do whatever it took to keep from living a lifestyle that they know is against the will of God.
If you have accepted Christ as your personal savior, then that absolutely assures your eternal salvation. So yes, in that respect, you are a "christian".
However, especially as a married woman.. if you make the choice to go out (whether it be with or without your husband) and sleep with other people, you are not in any way living a "Christian" life.
While it is true that once you are saved, you are forever saved.. and nothing you can ever do will take that away.. that's doesn't mean that you have a free pass to do whatever you please in this life.
Doing things that you know are sinful, and against God.. are very Un-christian of you. Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to say that if you were a true Christian you would never sin.. that's not true. We all sin, each and every one of us, the saved and unsaved alike.
My point is simply that if you are truly saved, and are wanting to live for God.. you will forget about all that foolishness, and do what's right. You are married, and a marriage is sacred, between only you and your husband. God does not intend nor does He wish for us to make a mochary of that union.
Pray about it, and I'm sure the Lord will show you the way.
2007-03-18 02:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by arkiegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when you believe in God and his teachings sex is for marriage. Premarital sex is considered a sin so when you have sexual realtions outside of marriage you are commiting a sin in the eyes of God. Sex is a pleasurable journey that is suppose to signify the bond between a husband and wife and reproduction of course. You may as well be an athiest because no religion I know of allows promiscuity I'm a Christian and not only did I save myself for my wife it all comes down to having any moral values and self-respect! I'm not saying we waited until marriage but I knew she was the one from the beginning and have asked forgiveness from God for our pre-marriage relations.
God Bless and I hope you find God because at this moment you sound lost?
One other thing you are married that means one guy/women depending on sexual orientation for life no others allowed that would be considered adultery if what you are saying would transpire.
If you know the bible then you should know that God sent his angels to destroy the Towns of Sodam and Gamora for acting this way sexually. I'm not one to judge that will be God's job in the end do you wan't to live with that over your head for life?
Just a thought If you knew you were like this why did you get married?
2007-03-17 20:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok misguided one, all a christian is , is someone that believes in christ.. u can be a mass murderer and be a christian, doesnt make you a "good" christian, doesnt make u someone that should be hailed as a "good" christian, just makes u someone that believes.. but when u want to pick apart the bible to make urself feel better about going against what it says, then thats only covering for your own guilt.. is everyone a sinner yes, but if u know something is wrong, and u choose to go against it knowingly time and time again, your beliefs mean little to yourself and to anyone that knows u.. I dont know u but from ur questions i find u extremely pathetic.. its one thing to come on here and ask the "sex" thing but to come on here and ask the bible vs the sex thing, and wanting someone to back you up on it? lol If u want to do it, do it, God gave u free will, but know that with every mistake, although he may forgive u for it..it will be held against u in the end.. so its ur choice, u know between right and wrong, u know what the bible says.. now do u fall to temptation, or do u follow the lord, only u can choose that for yourself ..
2007-03-17 18:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You had better ask your nearest clergy person that one. I've never heard of any religion other than one that believes in multiple wives that allows the behavior you are looking at doing. In fact I can't understand where you got your idea of marriage from???????????????
2007-03-17 18:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can believe all you want but you are not respecting him with your behavior. In fact you are breaking his heart. I'm no prude, I believe in a good healthy sex life, WITH my husband and only him.
2007-03-17 18:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many of us are.
2017-02-06 23:11:41 · answer #7 · answered by Rebecca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is for richard the top contributer....the only relegion you know that allows this kind of behaviour doesnt alow it between two wives.......no homosextuality.its only between husband and his individual wife .so improve your knowledge before you answer
2007-03-17 22:52:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not christain like wanting sex with women
2007-03-20 17:04:11 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shame on you , grow up already.
God says he would rather you hate him then do something you know he's against!
2007-03-17 18:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋