As a child of my parents, I know am the only one for them to depend on. Thus, sacrificing for them is not a burden. But when I entered secondary school, I met someone which had stolen my heart in just the first look. From that day till now, I still kept this feelings inside of me. I did know that he is interested in someone else. I still sacrifice this love for him. I just couldn't forget him till this very day although he had hurt many other people's feelings and mine too. I just don't understand why I got into this trap and sacrificed for him. Sometimes I tell myself to forget everything and start anew but it just won't happen. Is love a sacrifice too?
2007-03-17 18:39:57 · 9 answers · asked by aNjAsMaRa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes. Love is a sacrifice.....
If you became her girlfriend, he must comfort you when your sad,
Always there for you, Loves you, and give his life to you if something happens...........
So my answer is yes, love is also sacrifice.
2007-03-18 04:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I hope you are doing alright. I'm wrapping my head around some heavy stuff too. I'm please to meet you.
Someting that is really helping me is a small book that doesn't take anything away from anyone's spiritual path or choices. Please read 'The Four Agreements', this book will help you along with the choices you have made and choices you will make. For me it's like a light that I knew that I had inside that was faint and far away, now even through my hard time it's bright. It's a great tool I hope you pick it up.
If you need to talk or anything please email me,
Aloha.
2007-03-21 22:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by mauikittie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sacrifice makes us stronger. Just remember. What comes around goes around. It's perfectly OK to love. In fact it's healthy. Sacrifice is the ultimate form of love their is..You will become a better person because of it.. I just wish there were more people like you in the world.. Too many people these days are nothing but being ME ME ME. I applauder you for what you are doing.......May you find the true love you deserve.
2007-03-17 18:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
oh girl us men sacrifice a lot for women and even though ya don,t relise it .i gave up hot cars fishing trips with my bro,s etc
i still wonder about all those girls from school and my home town in horsham vic from the 70,s but i got 3 wonderfull kids and r so proud of them what ever they do ok..
some times its ok to lay back in bed a fantises a bit stimulates the brain..
do what u have to but focus on whats important ok bye for now markiss in darwin n.t hoo roo
2007-03-17 18:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by the gate keeper 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as hard as it is to do, you have to start living for yourself. i understand your responsibilities to your parents, but you are your own person and if you arent careful you will wake up one day and be 50 years old and realize that your whole life has passed you and you didnt do what you should have for yourself.
its great to have parents that you love that much, but you have to do whats right for you. and it sounds like this guy is kind of a jerk
2007-03-18 02:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes love means to sacrifice. but you are young and will find the rite one to spend your life with
2007-03-17 21:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when we get our heart broken we dwell on what happened. I have found the best thing to do is take what you have learned from it. It is okay to still have feelings but you have to move on....Do you think he is tormenting himself over this?
2007-03-17 19:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by jules12413 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you know where this guy is I would call him and tell him to meet you for a cup of coffee, this way you can tell him how you feel about him and see if he feels the same way about you.
2007-03-17 18:57:44 · answer #8 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
FIRST OF ALL HE IS NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR THE WAY YOU FEEL YOU CHOSE TO HAVE THESE FEELINGS WE ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR ALL OF ARE THOUGHTS AND BEHAVIORS. AND LOVE IS A GIVE AND TAKE THING A COMPROMISE BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR PARTNER
2007-03-18 20:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by SOCK MONKEY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋