Hmmm she probably saw that you were looking good and still single and had some thoughts in her head about getting back with you... maybe she became bored with her co-worker?
If you dont have feelings for her then I dont think you should give her the chance to allow her to like you again. I understand you tw have kids but she LEFT YOU! Thats just really sad and harsh especially at the fact that you tw have kids, Im sorry I knw it must have been pretty hard on you.
But your doing good now and why would you even think about what she feels for you or not? Move on with your life. Your obviously the better person here cause you didnt leave her! Maybe shes having flashbacks and realizes what shes been missing and regrets it but if she does then she should be a woman and approach you if she has something to say!
Live life and till she approaches you... move on! Goodluck.
2007-03-17 18:28:15
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answered by *HILWA* 4
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It is possible that because you are now looking after yourself and your health - perhaps you have new clothes and things she is more attracted to you. It is also possible that things arent going as well as she expected with the new guy and she remembers that you were a great partner and father and may regret what she has done. Women are stupid like this, they always think the grass is greener on the other side and it is her loss. I am happy to hear that you are over her and moving in a positive direction now you have grieved and are over the loss. Good luck you should surely find someone more deserving. All the best.
2007-03-18 02:09:15
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answered by gudsport 2
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You have it 100% correct. I think a small part of all of us wants to think that the other person will be lost without us. You are proving to her that you can and will lead a great life without her. Sorry to hear it happened, but i'm glad to see that you are moving on with your life. What happened is now your able to take some of that time and effort you put into your relationship, and put it into yourself. Don't look back!!
2007-03-18 01:31:21
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answered by hlind28 3
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Ohhh boy, this hits home for me! My wife had an affair a decade ago, and even moved out for a short time. After I got over feeling sorry for myself, I began to change and I wished her luck and began moving on...and her relationship with the new man fell through fast. I think she began to see me the same way she did when we first fell in love, and she returned to me. I wish everyone who has been cheated on would read this and understand that your ultimate revenge is not to accuse or whine or get angry, its to let go and rebuild yourself and your life.
2007-03-18 01:32:25
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answered by Paul 3
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That could very well be the case, and honestly, I hope she realizes what a huge mistake she made. I hope that she sees how well you're doing and I hope she is hurt that she can't have you back.
That sounds awful, but you were in a much worse position four months ago. It would only be fair. The curse of Karma. Heh. or the blessing!
2007-03-18 01:22:48
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answered by newjerseynets_5 2
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I don't know ...it might be that ya know she does think about you,somewhat...that's normal...it is very hard to forget totally a person that you used to be madly in love with..even when they hurt you alot!
I know....I still think of my ex-boyfriends...still..and I got married last summer...but, I am not going to go back to them...I just think of them...I have to keep telling myself ...think not just of the great times...but, remember why you can't be with them, or don't want to any longer..!
It's still slightly painful, for me...the longest relationship that I was ever in..was 14+ years! Very hard..went thru some MAJOR, Major changes! I changed thru it all....and I will probably always be thinking about these "others" from my past...including the last fella!
It's and "Ouch" to my heart, and a "ugh" and a "Please do not go there" situation for me!Still.
DO you have these feelings about her,maybe just a little bit?Still?...because like it or not..she may not admit this to you...but, she may still have love for you, somewhere...even if she hurt you!
been there, many times! It ain't fun! But, you have to be strong, ya know?!
2007-03-18 01:35:38
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answered by ladyk 2
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Yes. Or, it's hurting her ego to see you having a good time without her. Or a combination of the two.
2007-03-18 01:24:35
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answered by romipenne 2
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Could be or she found the grass wasn't greener on the other side. You need to look out for yourself so follow your heart.
2007-03-18 01:29:20
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answered by kitkat 7
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id move on and find you a nice women date and enjoy life id forget that cheater she left you
2007-03-21 19:52:09
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answered by sweetgranny06 7
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we always want what we can't have. she may have realized her error. get some counseling before you make any decision to reconcile. you will both have trust issues. since children are involved, it would be very adult to remain friendly.
2007-03-18 01:30:48
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answered by KitKat 7
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