Ok well there's this girl at school. she hangs out with my and my friends. when she's with us she acts like us and "likes" things we like but when she hangs out with all the girly girls who love r'n'b she becomes one of them. I've already told her to stop being someone she's not but she hasn't stoped and it's really pissing me off.
2007-03-17 18:11:17 · 7 answers · asked by mazthemuz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well first tell her you dont want to be friends with someone they arnt an if she doesnt listen ignore her untill she gets the message
oh and make sure you tell those other girls what she is doing so they know that she is a fake aswell
see how she deals with that!!
good luck
2007-03-17 18:46:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a very similar friend. The thing i've come to realize is that this girl is probably just really insecure and just wanted to fit in. She probably feels like she needs to change who she is so people will like her. You should try telling her that the people that are themselves and individual are usually the people thate everyone wants to be friends with. Tell her she doesn't have to morph into something different just so she can hang out with a certain group of people. :)
2007-03-18 01:39:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you like who she is when shes aroudn you and your friends
she's most likely acting liek that becuase she wants more friends and feels insecure about herself.
you remind her that being yourself is better because if you're fake people won't know the real you
and if she doesn't try to be herself
just forget her
2007-03-18 02:11:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she really does like alot of different things-and has friends to suit?Don't you have friends that you enjoy doing some things with and others you do different things with?
2007-03-18 07:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by Jane Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why R you trying so hard to be her friend? Give it a rest! She is who she is..and there ain't no denyin'!
2007-03-18 01:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by ladyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont hang out with her anymore then
2007-03-18 01:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by in despair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore her. i hate fake barbies like that.
2007-03-18 01:26:52 · answer #7 · answered by ~Emmalee~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋