Any help?
Any one in the same boat?
2007-03-17 18:04:14 · 13 answers · asked by and,or,nand,nor 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The first question you might want to ask is why do you have a hard time saying it out loud? The second question might be does she want and need to hear it. Ask her if it is important to her. There are several ways of expressing love and everyone has their preferences. Some prefer words and encouragement, some prefer those little 'honey do' helps, some would rather be hugged and snuggled, given a nice massage. Play a game of " I'd do anything for you" and list the top ten preferences. If she does want to hear it, verbally practicing it someplace private will make it easier to say when your with her.
2007-03-17 18:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by Maia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want help? I feel the same way about my husband and we've been together for over 15 years. Our love for each other grows deeper and deeper with time and we still can't keep our hands off each other! LOL!
If you're having trouble saying it, speak with your actions. Help her around the house, give her back rubs and foot rubs, bring her flowers occasionally, cook dinner for her once in a while. There are a lot of people who SAY "I love you" but their actions don't show it, so being able to say it doesn't necessarily mean anything. It's the actions that count.
2007-03-17 18:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Dad winks at my Mom a lot. I am sure your wife knows you love her and she also knows that your not the verbal type. Congratulations on the 10+, must be a great marriage.
2007-03-17 18:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 21 years, and would not trade my wife for anything. I would walk over hot coals and put bamboo under my fingers. Verbalize it by saying the three simple words. I love You
2007-03-17 18:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you can't express it on your own, try finding someone elses expression that fits your feelings. Songs, poems and letters can sometimes say what you cannot find the words for.
Something my husband once did that meant the world to me: he spontaneously told me that the song playing on the radio made him think of me no matter what he was doing and he'd always feel like crying when he heard it. That's something I will always treasure knowing.
2007-03-17 18:08:37 · answer #5 · answered by Cassandra G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't verbalise it, perhaps you could write her a love letter. If you can't do that, there are some wonderful cards that will tell her how you feel. Good on you, hope you feel this way in 50years. True love is a very special thing you must protect.
2007-03-17 18:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by Dianne S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did this once and it worked a treat - write how you feel in a short letter (too long and it will sound corny) then post it to your own address (to her obviously) with any luck she will retrieve the mail while you are at work - and you will recieve heaps of points for the effort!
2007-03-17 18:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes been married 16 years,,
This is what i do I write a note from time to time and tell her what she means to me and the world around us.
Write it down and tell her I love you in words only she can appreciate!
2007-03-17 18:59:25 · answer #8 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't always have to be words. It could be a look or gesture. My hubby kisses the top of my head when we are snuggled together watching tv. It makes me melt...
2007-03-17 18:32:59 · answer #9 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with exceptio actions speak louder than words. do something romantic for her i know that is the way to show women you love them. do something like a scavenger hunt that will end up with you at the end saying you love her. if you do do this please let me know i want to know her reaction because i know this will never happen to me. please.
2007-03-17 18:11:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋