Ok I have a boyfriend BUT my friend seems to always be quiet around us and ditches us to do something else. I have tried to tell my friend to hang out with us but she is too shy and says no then after a while she walks away!!! Then sometimes she comes up to me and tells me I'm to into my boyfriend and I'm not talking to her alot.....do u think she is jelous and I will also add in that she doesn't have a boyfriend and never has.....What should I do to help with this confusing conflict?
2007-03-17 17:52:47 · 3 answers · asked by Latina<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds like your friend does have a problem with your relationship, but you need to ask yourself, am I still spending time with her? You mentioned including her in activities with your boyfiend, which is great, but do you still make time for just the two of you? It could be that she doesn't want to feel like the third wheel all the time. Try making time just for her, and see if that helps.
2007-03-17 18:54:17 · answer #1 · answered by kerri 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she may be jealous that your attention is now all upon him. She obviously feels awkward being the odd person out while you and your boyfriend are flirting with eachother and being all mooshy gooshy, lol. But seriously... go out on a DOUBLE DATE! Get one of his guy friends and introduce him to her then go hang out somewhere where it wont be so crowded and weird... maybe a fun game of mini golf? Thats always fun no matter how old you are!
2007-03-18 01:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by *HILWA* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Separate your time between the two people so neither one feels left out. It's obvious she has some sort of problem with your relationship, so if u don't want to lose your friend, u should not ask her to hang our with u and your boyfriend, but make plans with her alone so she still feels important to u.
2007-03-18 01:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by TNP Girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋