2007-03-17 17:43:16 · 30 answers · asked by gary g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
assaulting him will not stop her from cheating, may make her feel sorry for him and leave with him. also the jail time, and community service, the anger management classes, and probation are things that will make u wish u had just let it alone. revenge will get u no where. there would have been no cheating had your wife not made it happen. why ruin your life, your record, over her choices. i would be more mad at her than the man.
2007-03-18 02:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why do anything to him ,,,, He's not your problem ,,,, Your wife is ,,,, You aren't going to stop her from cheating on you just because you go around beating these guys she see up ,,,, Assault and battery is a serious offense these days ,,,, It you are going to be charged with something like that then assault the one that's causing the problem and then just drop her ,,,, Your relationship and marriage was over the first time she did it ,,,, Getting physical with some one over it including your adulterous wife isn't going to solve a thing ,,,, It's over and you need to realize that ,,,, The sooner you do the better off you're going to be and the quicker you will be able to move on in your life ,,,, You'd never be able to trust her if you stayed with her ,,,, Get rid of her ,,,, There's no profit in it for you to try and hold on to her and a marriage that doesn't exist anymore ,,,,
2007-03-18 01:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy my ex wife was cheating with got to close to me once and I broke his nose.It cost me 782$ for the doctor bills plus I had a restraining order on me for 12 months.He dropped the assault charges because he didn't want everyone knowing about the affair because he is well know in the community. Best thing to do if you just can't get over it is to catch this person away from everyone so you don't have witnesses.Bust his low life a$$ and keep walking.Just remember if an assault charge is against you then you can't have any guns around you or own them.It takes away alot of you rights so be careful.
2007-03-18 01:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why assault the guy when your wife is just as much at fault? You will be in more trouble than it is worth. Legally and otherwise. If you love your wife and you truly feel that there is hope in saving the relationship than find out why she is cheating and go from there. In most cases the guy cheats for the sex; women cheat to fulfill a void or some emotional aspect that is not being met. Before your go off and punch the guy figure out how to fix what caused your wife to cheat in the first place.
2007-03-18 00:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by CJ 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You will be in jail, and be charged with assault. He is not worth it. You are better than the guy who is cheating with your wife on you. This is something you and your wife need to discuss-either she quits cheating, and comes back to you (if you want her to) or divorce. I wish you the best. Take care.
2007-03-18 00:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by SAK 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why, why, why assault the guy??? Now, I'm NOT saying you ought to assault your wife. But she IS to blame. She owes you loyalty, he doesn't. She is supposed to be committed to you, not him. Anyway, I have had this problem...my husband did the same thing to me...believe me...the other person is not worth your time or trouble...it is your spouse that needs a talking to...
2007-03-18 00:52:28 · answer #6 · answered by christy j 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, it's your wife that betrayed you, this other man isn't where the problem stems. Focus on working it out with her or get a divorce. Assault won't look good on your record, you know better than that you are just angry and feeling inadequate.
2007-03-18 00:55:59 · answer #7 · answered by Vegas 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
more trouble than you want.
Assaulting him will not make the pain or anger go away, it will make it worse actually. All violence will do is put a tiny band-aid on your pride, but that isn't the real issue. Face the real issue: you are hurt and angry and betrayed. Your pride is the least of your worries.
Take your violent feelings elsewhere; beat a punching bag or a pillow or whatever. When your energy is spent, confront your wife and decide whether you want to go to counselling to try to work things out.
Good luck.
2007-03-18 01:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by Cassandra G 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Big trouble! It is possible to be arrested over it.
Quite honestly, is it worth it? Obviously your wife is just as much at fault if not more so than the guy. Why cause even more problems for yourself?
2007-03-18 00:47:58 · answer #9 · answered by Stacy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
WIFE CHEATING-ASSAULT THE GUY-YOUR IN A LOT OF TROUBLE-WITH BAIL MONEY-JAIL TIME-PROBATION-EVEN PRISON-BUT YOU SERVE YOU TIME AND PROBATION PAY YOUR FINES-GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE-WITH OR WITH OUT YOUR CHEATING WIFE-THEN FIVE YEARS AFTER THE FACT-YOU TRY TO GET A GOOD JOB-THEY RUN A CRIMINAL BACK GROUND CHECK -AND YOU HAVE THE SPOT ON YOUR RECORD-ITS NOT WORTH IT-BELIEVE ME I AM GOING THRU THIS KNOW-WITH THE BACK GROUND CHECK- SO TAKE A LOOK AT THE SITUATION AND SEE WHAT PART YOU PLAY IN IT-BUT BY ALL MEANS DONT ASSAULTANYONE-ASSAUTLT HIM YOU GO TO JAIL AND HE IN YOUR BED-DOING FREAKEEE **** TO YOUR LADY-AND SHE PROBABLY ENJOYING IT AND GIVE IT BACK BETTER THEN WHAT SHE GIVE YOU-
2007-03-18 00:52:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋