ive been married almost twenty years, yes along time, he has been being the biggest *** lately , i dont know if its just an age thing or what , but i just cant take it no more , do i just hang in there again, or should i finally take the opportunity to just leave, weve been rocky since day one when he cheated on me
2007-03-17 17:41:59 · 3 answers · asked by Rºññèè 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You had me shaking my head all the way up to the point you said he cheated on you. In marriage we need to fight for our life together. We must build trust, and security. However, when one cheats the other would have to be unbelievably strong or unbelievably stupid to stick it out. So he cheated, you are in no obligation to try to make it work anymore. No one will think you are a bad person, no one should! You add the problems he is showing on top of that.... just leave him. Plus if you can, really ream him in court please! I just hate cheaters!
2007-03-18 01:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by delux_version 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you know the real answer to this. I was married for 16 years. Our marriage was rocky from day one, also, but I held on a long time. I have now been divorced for almost 3 years. If your husband has cheated in the beginning of your marriage, the trust issue that should be there was gone. It is hard to stay with someone you can't trust. I hope this helps--best of luck to you in whatever choice you make.
2007-03-18 01:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by bellegurl17 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then leave, start a new and be happy....
2007-03-18 04:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋