I'm a very discreet "str8 acting" gay 19 year old guy who is very good looking but I can't seem to meet any similar guys because I am attracted to the kind of guy you can't tell is gay, so it is hard for me to pick them out. Is there like a club or a gay sports bar or something where these type of guys hang out or am I just on my own to spot these guys?
2007-03-17 17:22:53 · 7 answers · asked by Emile B 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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2007-03-17 17:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by kelly r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the same way: Between a rock and a hard place (no pun intended).
Realize that if the point of being discreet is to hide your sexuality from others, then I doubt you'd have luck going to a gay bar and keeping your discreetness.
You may meet your type at school, work, or even online. Masculine men (non-fems, etc.) who aren't afraid of being themselves (ones who are "out") are the ones I find most attractive; in a way, it shows power, stability, and overall maturity within that person. It will be hard to find a ("straight-acting") gay man like that who is 18-22 years old.
You don't have to act feminine to be gay. Try coming out and then finding your type; it will be a lot easier to find the one you're looking for.
2007-03-17 17:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the need to be str8 acting? What does that mean anyway? Not effeminate?
I'm sorry, and maybe you don't mean it this way, but that always sounded so homophobically homosexual to me...
I still wish you luck in finding love...
I've seen all types in all the NY gay clubs I've been to... I'm there at least 3 or 4 times a year...
2007-03-17 17:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by jtim24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you are saying i feel the same way, but saying straight acting has been known to upset a couple of our fellow homosexuals so i would suggest a change of words. Now the masculine guy that you are looking for is extremely hard to find in NYC or any area for that matter. What you have to do is get out there and date. Attend events and party and meet new people you will find what you are looking for, but i doubt that you will find him by sitting in front of your computer so go out and find him. GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-17 17:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by qdeezy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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