ok, why, do some of you go for girls that look like guys? or dress like guys? have the shape of guys minus one thing, doesnt it kinda defeat the purpose?
2007-03-17 17:16:57 · 17 answers · asked by Teejay 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
cool to get some understanding, however, I guess as a guy who loves women,lol, I guess as I would see it,a woman would want a woman who looks like a woman,most guys i know whether the woman is skinny,whether the woman is fat,whether the woman is blonde etc,she looks like a woman ,on the surface and Im not trying to be mean so y'all forgive me,it looks like an illusion and i know you might not care what others think and thats cool,but it just looks like an illusion . ha, by the way I know alot of women who dont think the pnis is ugly,lol, be it real or plastic.
2007-03-17 18:00:27 · update #1
Jus Too: I wish I could agree with you that men were programmed for things on face value but youre wrong and women for darn sure just want to solely want to know someone from the inside, there are plenty of women here who'd say he(or she) has to look like this or that before they even give that person a chance to say one word to them, I guess for me, when I see one of the girls with one of the more masculine women( I even see some with mustaches though small ones) it was just TO ME seem like saying why dont you just go get a man? heck I know some women be you str8 or lesbian assume men are dogs,but women can be dogs too, in fact they have their game down better than most men.
2007-03-18 05:00:53 · update #2
Good question. I applaud you for asking I have always wondered this as well. Whats the point of being a lesbian if you hate guys but act just like one?
2007-03-17 17:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by Barack O Bankrupt 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
People are people, everyone has their own likes and dislikes. Everyon has their own style, what they feel most comfortable with and personality.
As a male, you're programmed to take things at face value. You're not programmed to see beyond the packaging.
We women are programmed differently. We look under the wrappers, we want to know the person, not the clothing.
I've found myself attracted to both "butch" and "femme" types in both males and females. I have always been more attracted to the person inside rather than the clothing or wrappings they come in.
Some women are looking for security in the masquline looking women, some just like the person, some don't even notice.
2007-03-18 02:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps they like strong women, or butch women...
An emotional and physical attraction is more than just what part of the anatomy they may or may not have...
But, not being a lesbian, I can only tell you what I know from my lesbian friends and what I've observed...
Why do some str8 men only go for blonds? Or bulemically thin model types? Why do some men like the junk in the trunk? Who knows what brings two people together...
As long as they love each other and are happy...
2007-03-18 00:22:54 · answer #3 · answered by jtim24 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It's really just personal preference. Or just falling in love with someone for their personality rather than physical appearance...
But really, when you get down to it...it doesn't matter how women dress or if they look like/are shaped like guys...the fact is, they are WOMEN, and if it's women that you are attracted to, the rest doesn't matter.
2007-03-18 00:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I could say the same for why do some guys like fat chicks? Isn't that gross? Or Why do some girls like guys who wear black make-up on their eyes wear capes? I mean I could go on and on.
Emasculation of a female does not take away the fact that she is female and that is the basis of the attraction.
2007-03-18 00:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by girlsincamelot 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well i am one of those girls who like "dykes". It's because i want to feel a girls body parts i love the way a girl feels inside and out and a peniss disgusts me. A very masculine girl makes me feel safe and protected i want to feel that but i don't want a guy at ALL. if u need a better explanation u can e-mail me
2007-03-18 00:23:07 · answer #6 · answered by Christina T 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
why do some guys like skinny girls with no hips and no boobs who look like 12 year old boys?
Why do some guys like blondes?
Why do some guys like girls with big boobs?
Why do some guys like girls who are really fat?
Lesbians, as with all people, like what they like. That's it.
2007-03-18 00:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
your not getting the big piture. it not the one thing that we worrie about. it all depends on the person and mabey it is something most of us woman go for............
2007-03-18 00:37:16 · answer #8 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i LOVE butchy type girls latinas and filipinas ^the most^ omg gotta love them
2007-03-18 00:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by ღ 3SA sL33PY CaNT B3 sToPP3dღ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
different strokes for differnt folks
2007-03-18 01:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by 1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋