Honey, I think you have a bigger problem???
One are you being abused??? If so you have to leave or else there will possibly be no baby. Meaning he could harm you to the point that you lose the baby.
If not abuse, what do you mean avoid problems??? Arguments are going to happen. Why? B/c your pregnant and your emotions change like the weather.
So, if anything and this relationship is not abusive just trying to have a peaceful pregnancy then explain to him that right now sometimes your cravings and mood changes with the wind and it's very unpredictable and sometimes things won't come out right which will probably cause you to cry and just ask him to be an ear, a sholder and loving through something that is very life changing!!!
2007-03-17 17:18:40
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answered by Deanna M9903 2
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try not to start any problems. If he works all day or night and he's tired, you never know he might have problems at work and he don't want to talk about it, if to him, you nagging him too much or etc. You just have to be calm all the time because God forbid anything could happen you especially having stress and that can lead up to many complications during your pregnancy and that can hurt you too in the process. The both of you have to sit down and talk about it like soul mates. If the both of you have the ultimate love for each other there should be no problems. What he say at the alter to you when ya give the ring to each other he has to follow what he said. If what I told you don't work then the both of you have to go therapy and talk about your problems and you have to talk calmly.
2007-03-17 17:50:43
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answered by Spiritual and Philosopher 2
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If your husband is pregnant, I'd be worried about him as well. Unless he gives birth to a toothpick, his unit is going to explode like an overmicrowaved hot dog. In the name of humanity, get that boy a C-section.
Seriously, if you are worried about problems...give us some clue about their type. Is he violent? Is he immature? Is he overly randy in bed and you don't wanna put out right now? Is he cranky? Are you worried he won't find you attractive now that you're with child? Give us a clue, babe.
2007-03-17 17:16:25
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answered by Anonymous
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That's a pretty vague question. If you husband abuses you..then you can avoid that by staying away from him and staying with family or friends. If your husband makes you fearful for the life of your child.. then he sounds like POS and you should distance yourself as much as possible.
2007-03-17 18:09:48
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answered by Jana 2
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You have been with this guy
for over two years and you
haven't learned to fix the
problem of his hitting you yet.
You say you can't leave him,
because you love him so much.
Where is the love when he is
knocking you around??If a man
will hit his woman, he will hit his kid.
You need to get some help. You
can not handle this on your own.
It will only get worse. Lots of girls
have lost their lives to this sick
kind of love. It is not good for
you or your baby. Stop picking
out names, start picking out a
safe place to live and bring up
your child. Doesn't it deserve it??
2007-03-17 17:41:18
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answered by Anonymous
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Uh, what problems are you worried about? Your husband should be a source of help.
2007-03-17 17:14:52
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answered by reconnermom 3
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Hey I know how most women get pregnant and then they get all nerve over stupid things so just chill out and if you feel a problem then you should just go out side and take a breath
2007-03-17 17:16:08
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answered by Serenity F 1
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It depends on the problems. If he agitates you, walk away, you're have a baby coming soon, and he should be helping you. I did for my wife....twice!
2007-03-17 17:16:46
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answered by jimmyd 4
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If he is abusing you for heaven's sake find out where a shelter for battered women is and GO THERE when he is not around!!!
2007-03-17 17:16:04
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answered by Anonymous
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He can't hurt the baby During sex, if that is what u r thinking, if he is hurting you try another position the spoon is good.
2007-03-17 17:16:23
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answered by Shaz 4
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