this is for people who go to chucrch and well..bealive in god...
today i had sex and lost my virginity to a girl..now i feel awkawrd..and i feel like if god is gonan hate me for what i did im 17 :|
and yeah well.....idk what to do now...i feel wierd loosing my virginity and i want it back? is it possible? because i dont want god to hate me for what i did >.<
2007-03-17 17:07:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you losted yours already.
2007-03-17 17:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want an honestly Christian answer...here it is. The Bible says that sex is meant for those who are married only. However God is a forgiving being and always forgives those who truly repent. So if you honestly want to make things right (and I am not judging you-the Bible says we are all sinners and are saved through Christ) you should ask God to forgive you and relieve you of your guilt. As to getting your virginity back, that is a purely physical thing and can't be changed. Those who say they are a "virgin" again simply mean that they have asked for forgiveness and moved on (remaining abstinent.)
2007-03-18 00:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't blame you for feeling that way. Its normal to feel that guilt upon doing something you're not sure why you've done it in the first place if you knew you will feel that way after doing it. And I'm proud of you because you've admitted that you have that feeling of guilt. Because I thought guys don't really feel any guilt upon doing something like what you've done...
Look, God won't hate you, he never hates. we have a free will to do whatever we want to do, and what you've done is really normal. Its something that a guy and girl will do when the time calls for it. What you can do, I think, because I know that you're guilt feeling wouldn't fade away even if we said that God won't hate you, is do something for the church (religious acts) to make up for it. Confess to a priest. That, I think is the best way for you to express your feelings and release the guilt. You will feel better afterwards, I guarantee you. And mean it when you promise that you won't do it again.Ok? =)
2007-03-18 00:27:29 · answer #3 · answered by Kisses 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Once you lose it, it's gone. Never to return, but don't worry god is forgiving and what you did is not uncommon. In fact if everyone who had premarital sex or sex before age 18 didn't get to heaven, than heaven is pretty empty.
2007-03-21 23:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by Michael B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see....
You are in the LGBT section...
Posting about religious virginity...
I think you have bigger issues than a fictional sky god coming down to smite you...
Of course, you may just have chosen the wrong category by accident?
I've heard of these people who "reclaim their virgnity" through religious commitments or what-have-you... I personally feel it's all a bunch of hooey, but that's just me...
If you truly feel you need to atone for a natural act between two humans to bug sky daddy, I suggest talking to your pastor, priest, or whatever person you look to as a religious figure...
2007-03-18 00:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by jtim24 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
listen. sex is a very valuable thing. the bible and god control many things but i dont think that they can control your sex life. many many people that believe in god have sex in there teens. is you go to hell ebcause of that or something...there would be no one in heaven. almost everyone has sex in their teens. dont be so hard on yourself. god should forgive you. and....it was your choice...not his. you cant let a book control your life. aka bible.
2007-03-18 00:13:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
god will not hate you for what you did. God made sex and it's perfectly normal. Everyone does it (usually) at one time or another. God will understand.
As for the girl, well, I can't speak for her though!
2007-03-18 00:11:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you must ask for forgiveness, and move on.
try not to make the same kind of mistakes over and over.
its not the worst of offenses, remember how you fell now, and at the same time move on. god doesn't want you to fell sorry for yourself.
2007-03-18 00:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by angry youngman 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
God does not hate. You know you can't get it back so just accept it. You have done nothing wrong.
2007-03-18 00:11:33 · answer #9 · answered by holly 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
oman this just shows how much christianity is based on guilt..you did it dude and you have to get past it. you can still be a good christian just say you are sorry and all will be well
2007-03-18 00:13:45 · answer #10 · answered by kelly r 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think the word 'hate' is in your god's vocabulary.
2007-03-18 00:58:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋