He says he does not love her but shares bed with her because he has to does this really happen in Indian culture????
2007-03-17 17:06:46 · 15 answers · asked by platformer70 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How come Indian Culture come in his sharing bed with his wife or not???????? What do you think about Indian Culture because of these bunch of fools who came from India to your country on your Governments invitation or permission to stay there. There is nothing as such regarding sharing bed with wife or not in Indian culture, if the guy is not in love with her he can seek divorce or Judicial separation as per the matrimonial laws applicable to him & this is what is happening here as it happens in your country.
2007-03-17 17:20:13 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The most laughable questions pop up from people who have only a hazy notion of Indian culture.
Indian culture emphasises on faithfulness in conjugal life. A man's sharing his bed with his wife only signifies that ideally he shouldn't sleep with another woman while still married and thus remain faithful to his wife. It enjoins married women to do the same too. I don't find anything wrong with that. And I think that the same is true with all cultures. Indian culture also proscribes any woman married or not from sleeping with a married man and vice versa. The practice is not only healthy but also ensures some order in a society prone to decadance.
Finally, if a man is unhappy with his wife and doesn't love her, he can divorce her legally and sleep with any woman of his choice thereafter. Doing the same while a man is still married is deemed illegal, which agrees with laws of marriage prevalent in most civilised countries.
2007-03-18 01:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is sharing a bed then he is there because he wants to be and is getting something from the relationship. It's nothing to do with culture.
2007-03-18 00:13:09 · answer #3 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sharing a bed with anyone has nothing to do with culture. In the case of a man and a woman as in yours, if the man is sleeping in the same bed as the woman, there has to be some sort of consent here both sides. Certainly, your details indicates the woman in this case does not appear not to want him there.
It is not that unusual for a husband and wife to stay together (including even sleeping together) but there is no love present anymore. There may be economic reasons, they want to stay together for their children. It is most likely however, that only one is not in love with the other (in this case the man) and is thus deceiving her by continuing to sleep with her. Many men in all cultures (even western) do it as a matter of course - having affairs on the side, or just not interested in their wife, or even having homosexual interested - but hiding it from their wife and continuing to sleep with her. Fine - but making themselves the victim here is crap. Nothing cultural about it - just a lack of spine.
2007-03-18 00:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by shyguy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I am not aware of any cultures where the man does
not share a bed with his wife.
2007-03-18 01:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
culture is different from love. Sharing bed should be done in love but not in compulsion
2007-03-18 04:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by kirthika D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually in india, where many of the marriages are arranged ones, the two of them get to sleep even b4 they know each other properly. but often they get to love each other in the run......n so 90% of arranged marriages in india are succesful.
there is no force as such in the name of culture to sleep vit a woman or man u dont love or like.these are just nonsense remarks, blaming a culture to get an excuse.
2007-03-18 05:53:42 · answer #7 · answered by Ramya R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,don't u share a bed with your wife in your culture?
If he doesn't love her, he can divorce her, it's a lot of effort but it can happen. & shyguy is right!
2007-03-18 01:16:02 · answer #8 · answered by Nishu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens in many cultures, not just Indian
and societal pressure keep them their, unhappy but wed. keep in mind marriage in India are not for love but for money and status, after all the brides sometime still present a dowry to the man in hopes of achieving a marriage
2007-03-18 00:12:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't blame indian culture, you see thourougly first. in ancient times both are equal not only bed share with them for anyone. afterwards we(not me or you only is generally) are change for our selfish.
2007-03-18 01:18:52 · answer #10 · answered by ravi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋