my boyfriend and i are falling apart and now i could be haveing a baby. please help me i can't raise a baby by my self and i really want to keep him please tell me what you would do.
2007-03-17 16:54:46 · 5 answers · asked by sexycassie15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First, find out of you are pregnant. Second, why would you want him to stay if he doesn't want to?
If you are not pregnant, keep it that way until you are mentally, financially and physically able to care for a child on your own. If you are, explain your situation to him but that he would need to stay only if he wanted. If he decides to stay, he has to pitch in and make things better for the baby for the next 18 years!
2007-03-17 17:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by iniyaitza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him care. In fact, you can't make anyone feel any emotion. You can only be yourself, and hope that he wants to be with the real you. Just remember that he's probably as stressed as you at the moment (especially if you've told him about your possible pregnancy), so try to be as understanding as you can - and ask him to do the same for you. I hope you're wrong about the baby - this is a bad time to throw that into the mix - but life isn't always convenient.
Good luck!
2007-03-18 00:41:57 · answer #2 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are the 2 of you having problems? I know it may seem like the world is ending, but if you are pregnant, I think you should stay together as a *family*. Talk things out with him, instead of getting into a big fight or arguement. Sit him down, and tell him what you're feeling. Maybe he needs to hear "I Love You", because guys do get emotional at times. Just make sure you have a long talk with him, about your future!
GOOD LUCK
2007-03-18 00:18:16 · answer #3 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make anyone care--trust me, i learned the hard way. Im 6 months pregnant and it was hard at first to let go, but it takes time. But thats not what you want to hear. Look, dont cling to hm--dudes usually like girls who give them space and arent all clingy...maybe if he sees how strong you are without him, he wont wanna let you go.
2007-03-18 00:01:39 · answer #4 · answered by Sayain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to know you do not have to sexuailze yourself for people to like you. Take care of your self and don't be trip-pin on some dude liking you or not.
2007-03-18 00:05:22 · answer #5 · answered by SuperKdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋