I,m 34, I'e lost my wonderful kids!, my wife, and every thing that goes with all that,(x-mas mornin, b-days, soccer games) I'm lost! i have a great job managing a ranch, and thats it. i want friends, my kiddos, my life back. how do people deal with this? the ladies think im a sick guy cause i just wanna friend ! im alone here and just cant deal with this. i need human contact, someone to talk to. i realize there are many, many people worse off than me, and i pray for them, but who prays for me? if i ask i am being selfish! im not looking for sympathy just a way out i can deal with. i can be happy in a dumpster as long as i have someone to relate with. god please help me and pleas help those beyond me first. just find me in your time. why is a friend, a true friend soooooo hard to find? that is my question! why?
2007-03-17 16:53:48 · 4 answers · asked by coma 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You should seek help and friendship in your area. Agreat place to start would be a church or support group. Try a divorce support group or a single parents group etc. These people may have similar feelings and will be able to relate to your current situation. Good luck and hold on...
I sometimes think that when I feel very alone and need someone it might just be God's way of getting me to talk to him.
2007-03-17 17:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by Mona 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pray for God to give the courage to travel beyond the ranch and into church groups. You are not alone, you are giving to much power and thought to your flesh. Another physical person cant make you happy. Happiness has to come from inside you. You have been prayed for.
2007-03-17 17:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by another journey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it soooo hard because in general people suck. Try and get off the ranch once and a while and have fun down at the watering hole.
2007-03-17 17:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be your own friend first, then whoever you meet you can share with, instead of wanting something from them.
2007-03-17 17:41:00 · answer #4 · answered by unseen_force_22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋