like i'm 16 n my gf's(14) b-day is in a month..and my parents won't let me get a job or anything n i love my gf..but i can't get a job cuz my parents might think i'll go bad with money and none of my friends trust me and if i don't buy my gf a gift ..i will feel like i'm a bad bf. And i wanna buy something instead of making it..
2007-03-17 16:52:31 · 9 answers · asked by hello people 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
Don't buy her anything. Instead, take her out and do something special for her. Be creative. Make her favorite meal. Take her out to a park and fly a kite with her. I don't know--think of something that you haven't done with her yet and go do it. Girls just want to feel special. If you succeed at that, she'll be happy. As for your parents, you might want to talk it over with them as to how you need to learn how to manage money at this age rather than not have to learn the hard way when you're an adult. I got a job at 16 and it made me more responsible. Plus, then my parents no longer had to worry about buying my clothes for me.
2007-03-17 17:03:40 · answer #1 · answered by April W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude. i c what u meen and i kno how u feel all i can say is don't worry about it or u will get all uptight and not think stright just borrow some money from a friend or somehow get a hold of like 5or 6 bucks and get a rose and tell her that u love her and happy birthday. she'll love the flower and thats all u need man no worries if she really loves u she'll love it just the way it is and u are so take her somewhere like on a walk and just be together but don't do anything stupid. and renemeber u con't go wrong all u can do is do right. just keep that in youre head and it will go right.
God bless.
2007-03-19 18:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
-Promise ring along with her beginning stone!!! (as in you're all mine and that i'll marry you in some unspecified time interior the destiny yet not fairly engagement till you're arranged for that) -i for my area like the previous vehicle thought -if this is not jewelery then something useful she will use around the homestead (dorm besides the fact that). you be responsive to her superb... what form of guy or woman is she? Romantic, useful... outdoorsy? Plan a hike and camping out (basically the two certainly one of you)... i don't be responsive to what she's like.
2016-12-19 07:56:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if your mom will help you with some recipes for a picnic lunch (or early dinner). Pack a picnic and take her to the park. Pick up 1 single rose (or her favorite flower) on the way to give to her. If you have any musical talent or poetry talent, write a personal poem or sing a song written by you to her. Simple things are the best, trust me. Use your imagination, you may even come up with an original ending ----
2007-03-17 16:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by Denise C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming your gf isn't the materialistic type, write her a really heart-felt letter. List your fondest memories, tell her in specifics why you love her--it should mean much more to her than something material.
Make sure you mention how embarassed you are that you can't buy her something. Then she'll at least understand that you wanted to, but decided to do something much sweeter instead.
2007-03-17 17:01:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not save ur pocket money/allowence....if uaint getting any....then pluck out a leaf from someone's garden and go to ur gf......just say something cheesy like "u mean the world to me" or maybe "i donno how to live without u" or "ur even more beautiful than this rose/flower" (girls love being called beautiful.....believe me !!!)......then give her the flower.....kiss her and take her hand and walk around with her....hand in hand.....how cute and romantic......
If she really loves u....she wont expect anything else.......tell her tht U r her gift......best of luck .....
2007-03-18 00:27:40 · answer #6 · answered by Hazel E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get a allowance put a little aside each week, get her a nice card, or flowers, maybe a neighbor who has nice flowers might let you mow their lawn or something for a bouquet.
2007-03-17 16:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make her something, cook for her, or surpirse her!!
Anything that comes from your hands is better than a brougth present, trust me!!
2007-03-20 04:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by poohtimmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was u i would try to make something from the heart whether it is handmade or not because it is not all about gifts it is basically about how much you love that person.
2007-03-18 13:38:23 · answer #9 · answered by babygurl16keke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋