how much do i really love him? he wants to get married but im confused!! if i should or not!!
2007-03-17 16:16:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to give me more information to help answer your question.
2007-03-17 16:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a big step in life, only take that step if you feel or can see yourself with that person for the rest of your life. If you trully love each other, not just sexually, and you can see yourself waking up to that face every day, and on day start a familly, and can proudly call him your husband, then why not. Trust is the best thing in a relationship, aswell as loyalty, If you have all of the above, your ahead of the game. If you cant see your life without him, thats even better, but if you are unsure of marrying him, ask yourself why? Do you want to look for love somewhere else, or do you not love him, or just need more ime to think it out. Ask him, WHY DO YOU WANNA MARRY ME? just be straight forward, his response might open your eyes, maybe you are rully loved by him, and you will open up to him too. Maybe yor afraid of a big lifetime commitment. Let me konw if you need more advice, Im a psychologist, and I can offer you free advice through my email.
2007-03-17 23:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by sancho2020 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not love him enough to marry him and if you are confused about it and have questions then do not marry him. Only marry when you are ready and feel you can do so and are ready for a life long commitment like that. I really do not know if you and your boyfriend belong together or not. Follow your heart and let it guide you and to not jump into marriage until you are ready. Good luck to you.
2007-03-17 23:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA! Well, if your having to ask this question, then you really should know the answer= "No".
We can not help you decide if you want to marry your boyfriend or not, we do not know how much you love him, or if you even love him? Or why you are so confused over it, unless you don't love him, but feel guilted.....
If your this confused, the best thing for you to say to him is.."No". And be done with it......
2007-03-17 23:22:17 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, if you are just a tiny bit confused, do not get married. I was in your shoes at one time, and it was the biggest mistake I ever made! Now I am older, and I totally regret the stupid move I made. I made so many excuses to my self for getting married too. Now I think about it, and they were all dumb!!! How I wish I would Of done something with my life to make me feel proud!!! I was that age only once, I beg you to really think a hundred times about your decision!!!!
2007-03-17 23:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can answer that question but you...especially since we here don't know the first thing about either of you (other than you are each part of a couple).
If at some point down the road things don't workout, then you can go your separate ways...if you feel he's a good match and you want to marry and share years of your life with him, then do it...if not, then don't.
2007-03-17 23:21:39 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your soulmate then there would be absolutely no question at all wether or not you should marry him. When the right person comes along there is no doubt no questions only the thought of knowing this is the person you want to be with for the rest of your life.
2007-03-17 23:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by slynnch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are / feel confused ...you are not ready !!!
so tell him to give you a year more or so to answer that.
2007-03-17 23:20:23 · answer #8 · answered by Roberto D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant marry someone if you're not sure about it !!
2007-03-17 23:22:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him a few questions that can give you a clue,but dont make it obvious!!
2007-03-17 23:29:02 · answer #10 · answered by elsa brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋