ok im a bi girl and i used to like a girl in my class... and when i did she found out and flipped out at me... shes like "eww ur such a freak! eww stop liking me!" and stuff like that... well over the summer she sent me and IM that said "i like you too" and i never answered... and so i told my friend to ask her if she meant it or if it was even her... and so he asked her... and she said yes it was her and yes she did mean it... but then when i go to ask her for myself she kept denying it... and now ever since i officially stoppe liking her... shes been looking at me allllllllll the time... just like staring at me... im soooo confused... and shes one of those "popular" girls who always havta have a good rep... so even if she did like me she couldnt tell anyone cuz shes like the most popular girl in my grade... but this is really really confusing... so how can i find out if she acctually dose like me? but without asking any1... like what can i watch for in her actions?
2007-03-17 16:09:04 · 14 answers · asked by i am the one and only me 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
When you hide in the shadows, you cannot be yourself.
You let her know that you would like her friendship, but if it going to be a source of embarrassment or cause her to be less popular, perhaps it should not be.
2007-03-17 17:12:21 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like she does like you, but she's so far in the closet she doesn't want a relationship with another girl that others would find out about. Either work on getting her to accept herself and come out of the closet or move on. I'd just walk up to her and say something like, "Enjoy your fake, popular life in the closet." and walk away.
2007-03-17 17:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds like a kind of struggle in her heart as well, for getting much attention, being a les sounds out of e qn for her. perhaps she's afraid that u might reject her, or she's scared that others will kind of, discriminate against her, depending on ur society. but i'll say, u r still young, take time to look around, there's no rush into this issue, isnt it? y not juz try to ask her out, as a either casual date or juz some friendly meet-up? from then on, u can decide wat to do.
2007-03-18 04:10:30 · answer #3 · answered by kai 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think this girl is having a hard time coming out and accepting herself. She needs time to discover who she is and what she wants. Be open to any conversation she tries to make with you (since it sounds like she needs a shoulder to lean on.) But don't depend on her emotions and seek her attention. Let her come to you, and try not to get romantically involved. That's because a romance with her, in her current state, would be a hellish emotional roller coaster ride.
2007-03-17 16:35:16 · answer #4 · answered by roxusan 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ok first of all this girl sounds kinda crazy and i can see you really care for her and yes i know how young love can be. but think to yourself is she worth it. how do you feel when you think about her. i don't mean to sound mean but she dosen't act like she cares about you so the best answer i and anyone else can give you is find someone else because you don't want to be considered a stocker or crazy so don't watch her for her actions she's playing with your heart find someone who makes you feel real and alive i wish you the best!!!!!
2007-03-17 16:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by sexycassie15 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to forget about this girl. She sounds like she's into playing games. Why not find someone who is going to be open and honest about liking you.
2007-03-17 16:12:56 · answer #6 · answered by student202003 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she can't be out...
You'll never have a fulfilling relationship...
You'll start to feel resentful, used, unworthy (speaking from experience here...)
Until she's brave enough to accept her own feelings for you, you should try not to concern yourself with her...
It is hard to just ignore your feelings like that... but until she shows a real interest on her own, despite any peer pressure she might feel...
I just see hurt in your future...
I hope she is brave enough to accept both herself and you for who you both are...
Wishing you luck....
2007-03-17 16:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by jtim24 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One tell her you want to study and when she is reading laugh so she looks up and then start making out with her and if she kisses you back she likes you but if she pulls away she is straight.
2007-03-17 16:16:23 · answer #8 · answered by ftballtwenty1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry but she doesn't like you. She's just your typical bitchh of a girl who's friend thought it would be funny to mess with your head by saying "i like you too." She's just being a little prissy immature bitchh.
2007-03-17 16:15:46 · answer #9 · answered by NONAME 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
a) You should have made it clear you wasn't interested in her sexually, but only as a friend
b) How about asking her and helping her with her sexual insecurities.
2007-03-17 16:12:32 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Socks 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋