How do you get a guy that you just broke up with out of your mind?
2007-03-17 15:52:41 · 13 answers · asked by Briann M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sorry to hear you broke up.I would suggest staying busy and surrounding yourself with close friends and/or family.Do things you love to do.At all costs, AVOID love songs and "tear-jerker"movies.Try to smile alot and keep busy. It will take a little time,but it will pass."keep on,keepin on,you go girl,bust a move(just dont break it)"lol Hope I made you smile a little.
2007-03-17 16:06:29 · answer #1 · answered by rockman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry,i have guys in my mind that i cant get it off everytime i break up.U will have to find another guy or either chill and hang out with your close mates so that you can keep your mind of with this guy that you just broke up,it takes time,but just carry on doing things that makes you feel comfortable and forget about this guy.
hope that helps!
best of luck,
elsa :)
2007-03-17 23:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by elsa brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby. Try doing things that you usually don't do. Pretty soon you're mind will be off him. It is his loss not yours. It takes time to get over a guy but over time your heart will heal and you will no longer have hurt feelings. Hope I helped you some. GOOD LUCK
2007-03-17 22:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by CKP ILG!!!!!!! ILCBDKAP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with your friends, throw yourself into work- find odds and ends to do around your house- start a project, teach yourself something new everyday (gotta love Wikipedia) um... pretty much never stop moving. After a while you can calm down and realize that yo'ure okay. Good luck.
2007-03-17 22:56:30 · answer #4 · answered by chrisser665 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell yourself that it is time to close that door to the past. Get a new hobby, spend time with friends and family, get an animal, spend more time on schoolwork or work work, hang with friends etc..finally when healed start dating again
2007-03-17 22:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well last year i had a really really bad break up with this tottaly hot guy named jake and he broke up with me and cheated on me with my best friend taylor little *****!!
i asked all my friends several days of crying and laying in bed not eating not sleeping nothing but crying for 5 days straight!! wow stupid i know!! i asked them to do me a really really huge favor!! take my phone away i said everytime time i think about it i call his number then hang up instantly, so they took my phone and we went to a really tight party with my best friend jess and it was cool but i still had jake in my mind!!
what i did was i ended up talking to him i met up with him in a cafe and we talked today we still are really good freinds but remeber close friends and better than distant reletives!! stay freinds with him just make sure your personaly up for the challenge and most defenatly take the time and get over him and dont ask him out a million and one times after you are freinds that will just scare his butt away!!
hope this works an i have my prayers with you!!
2007-03-17 23:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by alwaysluckykitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get another guy in your mind.
2007-03-17 22:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by blank 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get busy doing some things tht interest you like some hobbies and find another b/f
2007-03-17 22:56:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think distance is the key. Force yourself to keep away from him, and if you absolutely must think about him, try to remember all the things about him that you didnt like.
2007-03-17 22:57:29 · answer #9 · answered by Lauren J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stand naked in front of the mirror . Take a few pics and send to him. Say see, you'll never get any of this!
2007-03-17 22:56:09 · answer #10 · answered by dirtmojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋