well im 16 and i dont have many friends....i cut myself, i stay in my room all the time and i barly eat anything. Black is my favorite color. I have been made fund of by a lot of people behin my back. I tend to get into a lot of fights. I try to make friends but people just tell me to stay away. I wear a lot of black and i wear a lot a dark make-up. Is there anyway for me to change my punk ways? How can i make friends?
2007-03-17 15:45:28 · 17 answers · asked by Punkass_chick_09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
these are reasons you dont have friends - you dont get out and meet people or hang with them and you fight with people. are there any other emo punk people at your school? if there are you can hang with them. if not maybe change your image?
2007-03-17 15:50:09 · answer #1 · answered by Mike H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try wearing white, blue, green any other color besides black........You can start wearing little to no makeup...or if you do let it be neutral.
And when you do that go up to some people and just like talk to them..people that dont knoe you.
and instead of cutting yourself, confide in the Lord.
But dont let all of this change who you are...stay true to yourself.
Maybe you should even try getting a transfer to a new high school so you can start over.
2007-03-18 04:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by 9876578 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uh maybe stop being emo and cutting yourselves
you can still be punk but not to the extreme
wear less black people might be afraid to approach u
next time wear less black and dark make up
2007-03-17 15:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by usmc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello I am here to be a friend,It sounds like to me
you are being bullied and that is why you stay in your room and wear black. When I was a teen
I had almost no friends and thought about suicide,
had no dates,teens can be mean to each other.
Maybe ask your parents to change schools or
maybe join a church group.High school is not
easy for some teens and I was there being
unpopular.Hang in there. good luck
2007-03-17 16:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by doulasc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a good thing that u realize,u are behaving very emo and punk like,dont worry,because there are many people out there would love having u as a friend,i guess they are just scared with all of your black punk things that you are doing.U better stop all these dark things and start being bright,wear light clothes on and be cheerfull.
hope that helps!
best of luck!
elsa :)
2007-03-17 15:55:20 · answer #5 · answered by elsa brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going down a dead end street. Someday you will regret wasting the best years of your life fighting and being difficult.
You could be suffering from depression. Talk to your counselor about how to get help. Throw all of the stupid black clothes out and start to dress like a normal teen.
2007-03-17 15:51:07 · answer #6 · answered by amoss311 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey frnd, making friends has nothing to do with your emotional quotient or your fovorite colour. And as far as black is concerned its one of my favorites too because you see it symbolises infinifty and its a universal colour. And if you think people make fun of you because of your make-up, then why wear make-up at all, try to be simple for somedays and see what happens.
2007-03-17 17:57:31 · answer #7 · answered by Sharmila B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should change your ways. I dress like you, and wear a lot of eyeliner. But just talk to more people and show them just because you look different doesn't mean youre a devil from hell. People are afraid to approach me because of how i look, but just give them a smile and talk to them. Even if there are no people that dress like you, make friends with people that are just plain nice. No one dresses like me, but i have normal looking friends. Not popular, but nice. :)
2007-03-17 15:55:15 · answer #8 · answered by hammymoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, wear some lighter colors, maybe stop cutting, and stop wearing dark makeup, if you think people will think you are weird, then do it gradually, like stop wearing the makeup one week, then get your hair done nice (like light highlights) one week, and so on.
2007-03-17 15:53:45 · answer #9 · answered by bramo126 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people who like black - arent mean
people who wear black makeup - arent devils
its nothing to do with your appreance.
emo is quite ok and cool.
but, why the hell are you cutting yrself and everything?
why do you get into so much fights?
dunt think, explaining all here, wld be easy. so
.hookup an appointment with the counseller. ok?
that wld be the only way.
gdluck!
2007-03-17 15:51:58 · answer #10 · answered by raj(: 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋