If you had a girlfriend/boyfriend and you were attracted to/liked somebody in your office, would you tell your boyfriend/girlfriend about him or her or would you keep silent about it?
2007-03-17 15:36:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
silent..
2007-03-17 15:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by Felix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't have an office (because I'm still in school) and I don't have a boyfriend, but I guess if I did, I would keep silent about it. No one needs to know my thoughts all the time. I know that if I had a boyfriend I'd be able to have secrets. If not, I'd break up with him.
2007-03-17 22:40:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me:
Being attracted to beautiful women is part of what makes me a normal healthy man. If I were to tell my girlfriend about every woman I found attractive, she'd string me up by my nads.
If I'm finding a lot of women very attractive, or find myself being drawn toward other women, maybe I need to think about if I want to be with my girlfriend anymore.
The "work wife / work husband" phenomena has gained press lately. We spend so much time at work that we can develop an unhealthy bond to an individual of the opposite sex.
It's not just the sex act that I want to keep for just my girlfiend- it's also an emotional closeness that only we 2 share. I flirt with other women and all that's good and fine, but I need to be honest with myself and set approriate boundaries for my behavior to be true in my mind to my girlfriend.
(I'm actually single at the moment, but that's how I try to conduct myself when in relationship)
2007-03-17 22:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....you should tell your boyfriend/girlfriend because a relationship with only last with honesty but lets be truthful we arent always honest..so I prolly wouldnt say anything i would keep silent about it
2007-03-17 22:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we tell each other - I'm a stay-at-home mom now, but he knows I have the hots for Joe from Blue's clues, and there's apparently a very attractive girl at his office that keeps hitting on him. We are secure in each other, no worries.
2007-03-17 22:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's alright to look at the opposite sex still while in a relationship. You can still think someone is hot. As long as you don't act upon it then it's fine. My dad thinks carmen electra is hot and he voices it and my mom is fine with it
2007-03-17 22:39:26 · answer #6 · answered by tom_goes_boom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't feel the need for an attraction because i would already have a girlfriend. good luck.
2007-03-17 22:39:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep silent.... You're not blind and as long as you don't ACT on that attraction, your partner doesn't have to know.
2007-03-17 22:41:26 · answer #8 · answered by laynette127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am currently in this situation, and i'm keeping it on the DL. it's not like i'm gonna' break it off with my boytoy. the office boy is just eye candy.
2007-03-17 22:39:01 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Future Mrs. Chandler 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I thought it was serious and not just a lust thing then yes I would.
2007-03-17 22:39:09 · answer #10 · answered by skye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋