ok so my boyfriend is such a nice guy and he is really funny but the other night he and two of his friends came over to hang out with me and some of my friends. Well one of them was a girl and he was hangng all over her right in front of me! he had his arm around her leg and when she layed down on the bed he layed right next to her and was so close to her face and talking. he didnt even say hi to me when he came in and he didnt even say bye when he left. Before we starte dating some of my friend kinda warned me to be careful because he kinda he the player vibe and i didnt listen to them because he seems like such a nice guy and i have so much fun when we are around each other....im just not sure if i should trust him or not..
2007-03-17 15:12:06 · 21 answers · asked by melissa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hunny, I was in a relationship where the guy did the same thing. He ended up cheating and i wasn't happy worrying about it. He sounds like he is to friendly with the girls. I think that you should talk to him and see what is going on. If you choose to stay with him please make sure that you can trust him. Life is to short and by expeirence know that when you don't trust in a relationship it won't work. All you will be is worrying and stressed which isn't good for you or him. So talk to him and see if there is any reason that he was doing that.
2007-03-17 15:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by domo23_2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it would be better if i knew just how old you were, but....if this relationship has been going on for awhile I would prolly sit down with the kid and do a little "relationship 101' and ask him questions about you guys.
Was alcohol involved in this incident? It's completely normal if there was, but if not, it sounds like he was just blowing you off and didnt seem to care what you thought at that present time.
I'd move on.....
2007-03-17 15:17:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friends say he is a player, it is usually true. He doesn't respect you or he wouldn't hang on this girl and make small talk in her face. The fact that he does it around you should be a flashing red light that he is not to be trusted. You deserve someone better than that anyway.
2007-03-17 15:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by whrldpz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U say ur b/f is a nice guy?? Nice guys don't treat their g/f that way, sweety-he's a jerk! U don't deserve that kind of treatment. My advice is to dump him, & if he asks u why, don't even bother to answer, tell him to figure it out for himself. He didn't even speak to u while he was there, & that should tell u not to trust him anymore. Find a guy who will respect u & treat u right, he won't, it'll only get worse. I'm sorry, I know how u feel, & it sucks!! Yea, I've been there. Good Luck.
2007-03-17 15:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by louise b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of this guy right away, he disrespected you in front of his friends and in front of yours, and that should not be tolerated....if you let him get away with acting like that because "he is such a nice guy" then he is going to just continue to do it....have some self respect.....
2007-03-17 15:21:11 · answer #5 · answered by jess_pickel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like trouble to me. If you just started dating him and you are already unsure of whether to trust me or not, I would say get out now. You are the one he should be smothering with affection, not you. I was just thinking the other day actually that I missed the beginning of a relationship with your boyfriends all over you so much when your friends tease you with "get a room." Anyhow, I think you get my point. You deserve better. Sorry :-(
2007-03-17 15:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is just dis-respectful to you!!
And if he does that in front of you-well what does he do behind your back??
And what's up with your G/F letting him must not be much of a friend becasue its dis-respectful on her part too. And not saying hello or goodbye!!Sounds like a real winner!!!
Therea re too many decent guys around, if you LOOK for them-respect yopurself and don tput of with that type of treatment!!
2007-03-17 15:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive me for saying this. You should put him out. You don't need a guy like this to pain you more in future. If he can do all those things in your presence, can you imagine the things he IS DOING behind your back.. Let him go and restart your life. May be painful now but it's better now than have untold pains in future....
2007-03-17 15:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i would totally dump him,hes not worth getting hurt over..hes deff a player if he was all over another girl right in front of you!!
2007-03-17 15:16:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him before you get hurt! He has found someone new you go do the same! Sorry the truth hurts :0(
2007-03-17 15:15:59 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋